or should I try and sneak out while she's not looking. I need to buy her a birthday present, but we spend so much time together, I never have a chance. Any ideas on how to leave?
2006-08-07 08:09:53 · 48 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-07 08:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi,Tell her that you "forgot to pick up something very important for her party" and when she asks you what:Tell her it is a surprise and remind her afterall it is her birthday and that she shouldn't be asking questions because that would ruin the surprise.
Pleas don't sneak out:I thought about how I would react because my fiancee , after 10 years together ,we are like you'll,always together.If I where her ,i would be hurt that you left during my party, i would want you. by my side for every moment of my special day.
Takk to her a few hours beforehand and tell her that you need to leave and it deals with her party and she can't ask any questions.I would trust and repect my fiancee if he directly told me he was leaving,instead of sneaking out.
How long have you'll been together, and what special present are you getting her......I would have some idea before heading out so that you know what stores you are going to: This will save time.Do you have children? If so...did they get her a card and present(s). if not take them with you,or supervise them making card(s)etc......Woman love that..I know all the mothers I know do.....
Please have a expensive bottle of champhane so you can celebrate later on and have someone take your chil/children for the night and til after lunch tomorrow,than you'll will hav a romantic night together and she can sleep in while you make you'll breakfast in bed. Don't forget the strawberries( if you are not allergic),choclate sauce, And whip cream.....goes good with the champagne...Any questions for more help or suggestions ,please send me a note. Good-Luck and I hope the party is very special for her.
2006-08-07 20:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha.... you plan on leaving and yet you also plan on getting her a present? Come on, be real. Why do you spend so much time with someone, yet you say you are gonna leave? That also doesn't make sense. I think you are completely full of it and/or the wording of your question is f'd up.
So if you are just trying to get away to get the woman a gift, just tell her you're going to the store!
2006-08-07 08:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...you have to leave her to go buy a present...Right!!??? Not actually leaving her...like gone forever and divirce kind of leaving..!!??? Just to get out to get her a present...I would say to her....look hun...need some time to go out and pick you up something special since your birthday is coming up...so she'll understand why you need to go alone. If you try to sneak out and then get caught...she may think it is for something bad like another woman or something...I say better to be upfront.
2006-08-07 08:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by toe_roper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you had me worried there for a minute-why not take her with you and let her be surprised-let her think you want to go after something then you could go by the grocery(later on after the other surprise) and pick up a card and some flowers-birthday cake(or a mix to make her one-Can you?)-a chocolate bar(if she likes it)-some ice cream and apple pie(instead of the cake)-OH YES BALLOONS!!! HOPE SHE HAS A HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
2006-08-07 08:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre going to leave her like "hun, I want a divorce" on her birthday!? Or do you just need to leave to go and buy her a gift.
If its the first then you are a jerk. But, if its the second, then tell her your going to get the oil changed on the car or something.
2006-08-07 08:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by msadvicegiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother buying a birthday present if you are leaving anyway? That just adds insult to injury. Let her know you are leaving, be a man about it. Let her know why and get out.
2006-08-07 08:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can do that without her knowing that you going to get her brithday present and if she asked you where you going you can tell her i need to do my own things. then do it .. then say happy birthday to her and give her the gift.
then tell her I wasn't doing my own thing becasue I just don't want you know I am getting you birthday gift. Not taht hard for you to figure it out.
I check you yahoo 360 you said you are very happy married. seem that you don't know how to not have her get idea that you getting her birthday gift???? my gosh. wow first time you are so serious about this.
2006-08-07 08:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol I think everyone misread your question. Or did I misread?
If your divorcing her, then you should be a man, give her respect and tell her.
If your buying her a birthday present then sneak after shes asleep.
haha. I couldnt understand exactly what you were asking!
2006-08-07 08:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be upfront with her. I know it's easier said then done, but if you love her and respect her as a person and still care about her, then just tell her. If you leave it will proberly leave her with alot of anger that will take longer to get over than it would if you just told her the truth. Good luck.
2006-08-07 08:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest the ol "look over there" routine. Then when she looks, run out of house. Although I'm sure she won't fall for it, so I guess you can hit with a brick as a backup plan. Not too hard, don't want to give her a concussion, just hard enough for her to lose consciousness
2006-08-07 08:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋