all my friends turn to me with their boyfriend problems cuse they think i have tons of experince, and at my school its tottaly uncool to never have had a bf. and ive never had a bf or kissed a boy or anything, im worried that my advice will hurt them becuse i have no experience. how do i make sure i stay popular w/o giving my friends the wrong advice?
2006-08-07 08:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
give them your advice of what they ask you and what you think of it it will not hurt you or them just give them what you think that would be the best advice
2006-08-07 08:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, when I was young I was in the same place as you. Here is the thing. Just give the advice according to what you feel would either hurt you, or help you. If it is something that would hurt you, dont veer them that way. Just be careful, if you don't know, answer gently with, "I don't know what I would do." Then leave it at that. This will save you giving advice that could potentially hurt someone.
2006-08-07 08:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay to start off....it shouldn't matter if you have a boyfriend or not. Help them as best you can and tell them alot of it they are just going to have to figure ou on there own. I know if may be 'uncool' but you shouldn't care what others think. Tons think I am a whore and all but I'm not cause it's uncool that my boyfriend is in college...but honestly it shouldn't matter
2006-08-07 08:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have 2 worry about being popular. Just strive for success, not popularity. If they come 2 u 4 advice, just tell them that u don't know the answer.
2006-08-07 08:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to give them bad advice,just tell them they need to sit and talk to their bf if they plan on stating with him,if they do not think he is worth it then they should not waste their time.This way they come up with their own solutions and you don't get blamed for break-ups.
2006-08-07 08:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go on dating website , or read those teen mags . Like 17 . Being a teen is hard enough without being un popular
2006-08-07 08:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be honest with them and find a bf
2006-08-07 08:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing with me just be yourself and give advice that u think makes the right sence and what you would do.
2006-08-07 08:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, telling them the truth would be a good start.
2006-08-07 08:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋