i am bad looking b/e i dont think so b/e my friends say i look younger then them and i am older then them but guys who are older ask me out i am so confused! and they make fun of me b/e i am a virgien !
2006-08-07 08:06:06 · 16 answers · asked by tlmfrancis@verizon.net 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
ummm... you look fine to me.. don't worry about what your friends say, if they're really friends it won't matter to them what you look like.. and good for you! your virginity is a special thing, and should be shared with someone whose really special to you and someone who won't take it for granted...
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2006-08-07 08:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by nm_angel_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoever tells you that you are not pretty needs to have their eyes checked! I think you are very pretty. Also anyone who makes fun of you at age 15 for being a virgin is retarded! Just because some people your age have given it up already doesn't make you weird or anything bad. When the right time comes along then is when you should think about losing your virginity. REMEMBER your virginity is something you can never get back! If you rush into losing it now, you might spend the rest of your life wishing that you hadn't, but you won't be able to do anything about it then. My advice to you is to make sure that you're with somebody you really care about (on the inside as much as the outside), make sure that the setting is special (don't do it in the backseat of somebody's car). In a nutshell, make sure that this memory you will have for the rest of your life is a happy one. If yourfriends keep teasing you about your virginity then they aren't really true friends and any guy that tries to pressure you into having sex before you're ready, is not someone who deserves to be the one you lose your virginity with. Be strong and stand up for yourself. I know that the peer pressure of teenagers can seem unbearable, but you have to decide what is more important to you? your happiness or doing what other people say you should. Don't get doing what your friends say confused with making them happy. They don't really care what you do with your virginity (I guarantee it). Live your life the way you think is best. Remember the only people who's advice is worth taking are those who have already been through it (your elders like parents, teachers, older siblings, etc). Other kids your age are just as clueless about what to do in life as you are, they might be dumb enough to give in to peer pressure, but that doesn't mean you have to. Good luck and be strong!
2006-08-07 15:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately growing pains are exactly that--I too hated the criticism and the fact that I was different than most of my peers, I was a late bloomer in just about everything. I can tell you this tho, out of all the girls in my 'click' I can count myself lucky. Two of my 8 friends were raped by the time we turned 18; Two others had abortions by the time they reached 16; One had run away; Two others were involved in heavy drugs. The only difference between them and me, was the fact that I did not have a boyfriend, and was still a virgin.
Sometimes, life has a way of evening everything out, there is a reason for everything and everything has a reason. Be proud of who you are, and do not let others compromise your integrity.
2006-08-07 15:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am too old for you and you are too young for me. And your picture in your 360 is just fine. Even your heel. Don't put a lot of make up on to look like some thing you aren't. Just be your self and every thing will work it's self out.
Just be glad you are still a virgin and keep it as long as you can, even if you walk down the isle in a wedding dress and you loose it that night, just thank and pat yourself on the back that you lasted as long as you did.
2006-08-07 15:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them make fun of you. Try some noticable makeup that still looks great. Foundation and eyeshadow & mascara makes everyone look older.
2006-08-07 15:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by i_heart_vinnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned to not answer questions or statements that shouldn't be asked. I didn't like to drink but just because it was my choice. I never told anyone. Just walked around with a wine glass and put water in it. It's none of their business if you are sexual or not. That's not my criteria for dating. I diverted attention. I didn't want sex as I didn't want babies. I dated a lot and never got pregnant but some did spread rumors and I made a joke and didn't really answer. Like: Why'd you have sex with John and not me? Well, never again as he wasn't very good.
You are probably asking... He never dated you again right? Wrong. He was wrong to ask me that and if he had wanted a clearer answer... I didn't want to date him again. But because he realized he was being a jerk. He stopped that and we resumed dating.
You will spend your life defending your actions if you don't stand up for yourself now. Hope this gives you power.
2006-08-07 15:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry if people make fun of you because you are a virgin.You are the smart one.They will get an std,or become moms at the age of 15!
2006-08-07 15:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm a 17 year old guy, and take it from me...you're not ugly.
Secondly, to be a 15 year old virgin is completely normal. Tell your sIut friends to shut up and stop pressuring you to do something you obviously don't want to/aren't ready to do.
2006-08-07 15:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by ?confused? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think they're making fun of u because u look young dear...! its a good thing that ur a virgin! what so bad about it? dont worrie about it.. for a girl, its always good to look young! i take it as a compliment
2006-08-07 15:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're cute. Nothing wrong with you. And don't worry that they make fun of you. Just ignore it. Stay a virgin for a long time!
2006-08-07 15:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋