Another boy story...?

Question

I like this boy named Chaz. He was my 'friend' I guess. He went out with my friends... I kept dropping hints that I liked him & messaged him that I had feelings for him. Then, he started talking to me too & calling me pretty & smiling at me when he had to come to our class for misbehaving (he's the flirty & funny type too).

So, one day, he asked me did I like him. I said maybe. He started joaning on me (making fun of me), but not mean mean, but he was just talking with me. Then he said he loved me. I said no. He said I was pretty. I said no & he laughed...

I was writing this letter to my friend about him (It was sort of mean, but I don't know why I wrote that he might be gay because my friend said that) & he found it. He read it & said he hated me. Then again said he loved me. He tried to give me a hug, but I wouldn't let him or people would think stuff ya know? Then that's all that happened that day. Lol. This is true foreal.

Do you think he likes me? I really don't know...

No. The letter I wrote was private... I was saying that I'm not sure if I liked him like that or liked the attention. I asked her what should I do because I heard he was gay, but didn't wanna ask him straight up... Middle school is like that... But still, he just broke up with my friend...

Answer 1

You don't really know what you want, do you? You want him to like you, but you don't want anyone to get the idea that he does. You flirt with him, then you write a mean note about him. He might find this hot/cold, like/dislike thing fun for a while, but eventually he will get tired of it.

Decide what you want. If you want this guy to like you, apologize to him for the stupid letter, and admit that it was stupid. Tell him you've been confused about what you want. You like his attention, but it makes you uncomfortable too. Ask him if he can understand that. And then just talk. And listen. You'll know if he likes you or not.

Answer 2

i think he might want to get to like u its in the eary stages