2006-08-07 07:58:11 · 21 answers · asked by aj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if a girl says something to you then take as real mate ,dont fall for this junk about her thinking one thing and saying something else if she says no she means no that way you stay out of trouble
2006-08-07 08:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by bojomarriott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this all the time. Its very hard to articulate what you are trying to say. Then when you think of the implications of what you want to say, you do damage control and say a different or milder version of what you wanted to say. I know you are thinking women are all two faced etc etc, but its not as simple as that.
Sometimes it happens when you don't want it to, depending on your defence mechanisms or some other unexplained reason. For example. I meet up with a guy I really fancy, I've been getting ready for 3hrs, thinking about what to wear for days. And he says you look nice. I would be thinking thank God you said that I've been getting ready for this forever, and yeah I'm feeling like I look at my best. But instead I come out with some sarky comment, which puts me down and makes him look stupid for saying it!! Why, I don't know.
This is why you need to learn to read people. its not about what they say its about how they say it. In most situations you can tell what a person really means. Like in my example I probably smiled and played with my hair. Showing that I am modest, so couldn't possibly say Thanks, yeah I look hot!
This is why it is not lying, we aren't trying to deceive you, there are just some things that can't be said outright, even when we try.
2006-08-07 08:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls probably - women rarely..
Girls are programmed - socialised into wanting to be decorations to attract and keep a bloke.. they often act/react to that end..
Then they grow up and become their own person and think sod that and say what they mean and mean what they say!
LMAO - hence why most men would rather go for a younger under 25 fawning 'you are so great - don't ask me I'm just a girl type' compared to the genius thirty-something interesting, dynamic, knows as much or more than they do..takes no prisoners amazing woman!!
2006-08-07 08:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do sometimes they dont for instance i will tell a guy they look good because i dont want to say they are ugly and hurt his feelings so the answer is yes and no it all depends on the girls personality
2006-08-07 08:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by cswtp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl and on the situation. Sometimes they're just trying to be nice and trying to not hurt your feelings. Other times they're just being downright two-faced. Like me sometimes! hehe! It's so not a bad thing, well for me anyway!
2006-08-07 09:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl.
2006-08-07 08:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman can answer this question because if its true, they're all actually thinking something completely different and aren't answering honestly!
2006-08-07 11:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Stomach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is just like some men say one thing and mean something else entirely.
2006-08-07 09:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more true than it is for blokes.
Some people are honest, others aren't. Doesn't matter whether they're male or female!
2006-08-07 08:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah pretty much its because you really dont want to here what she has to say about you, she is just being nice
2006-08-07 08:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Alina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋