i am pregnant. is te baby my husbands?

Question

i cheated on my husband on marh 10 usig a condom. then i had a period on march 20-26. i had unprotected sex with my husband on april 8 and 9. but according to my last period my due date is 12/26. which means i was ovulating april 02 and 03. thats a 5 day difference from the 8 and 9. i am really confused because even though i had protected sex with the other man almost a month before and had a period in between my ovulation date does not match up. i was told ovulation is 14-16 days after your period. if i am pregant with my husband that means i ovulated 18 days after my period. if it is the other mans im a month futher a long than my altra sound shows. needless to say im going crazy could my baby belong to the other man?

Answer 1

You do not need to be married if you cannot stay loyal and faithful to your husband.

If you need to know who the father is...then just wait till the baby gets here and get a DNA test done.

Answer 2

There is no real such thing as 'normal ovulation time' - A woman generally ovulates 12-14 days from the first day of her last period. However, this can vary greatly! Yes, if you only cheated on your husband that one time and you were protected, had a period since then, and then had unprotected sex with your husband ONLY - then the baby belongs to your husband. That one is almost a no brainer. There is NO set ovulation time for any one woman and all women are different! Some women even ovulate more than ones a month. Congratulations to you and your husband.

Answer 3

YOur are right about the ovulation dates--sort of. You ovulate on days 12-16 but the thing most women get wrong is which day is day 1. The FIRST day of your period starts the clock.

So...March 20 was day 1, March 21, day 2... so you were ovulating at the beginnning of April. If you had a period (and you are sure it was normal) after the adultrus sex then the baby has to be your husbands.

Not sure this helps but I thought I would try.

Answer 4

I am inclined to think (going by the dates you provided) that you are carrying your husband's child. It would not be entirely unusual to have late ovulation. If you had a perfectly normal period inbetween, the chances are that you were not pregnant at that time. However, you REALLY need to tell your husband now that there is a chance it is not his. It sucks, but waiting will only hurt him more should the child not be his. At least then he can prepare himself for the fact that he might not be the father, and can make a decision on whether or not he will accept the child as his own or not be able to live with your previous actions. You at least owe that to him. Put yourself in his place. If you are worried to tell him because of abuse or anything, then get some legal help and abused woman's help first before telling him. But if he is just a normal guy without problems, then you need to fess up now. Good luck, and I hope that you have learned never to do that again.

Answer 5

Not all women are on a 28 day cycle, so that could kind of throw things for a loop. However, since you had sex several days after ovulation with you hubby, it doesn't seem likely that you could have gotten pregnant on April 8 or 9. Your egg only lasts 48-72 hours, max. Things are really up in the air, so it looks like you'll have to wait it out.
Either way, I'd discuss things with you husband soon. Hopefully you can begin to work out the problems in your marraige that led you to cheating before your baby is born. This certainly isn't something you'll want to keep hidden from him.
Good luck!

Answer 6

Again, I won't pass judgement-it's your life.
I think it's your husband's, but you'll need a DNA test to be sure. You can ovulate earlier/later than the 14-16 day window given.
The dates wouldn't add up for the baby to be the other guy's either, and considering you did have a period after sex with him, it's unlikely.
Still, be careful. There are a lot of people involved in this situation.

Answer 7

Boy are you lucky. Ovulating 18 days after your period is not uncommon or impossible. Given your ultrasound due date, the baby is probably your husbands. You need to deal with the cheating on your husband thing NOW before you bring a baby into the relationship. Whatever is going on outside of your marriage, now is the time to break it off and start mending anything between you and your hubby.

Answer 8

If everything you stated is true, you are pregnant with your husband's child....no need to worry at all. But, you should never start a family with problems in your marriage. If you are unhappy, get out of the marriage, do not cheat. It is so wrong. Do not let the baby keep you there thinking it will change your marriage, because it will only add to your problems. Lying, cheating and decieving in a marriage, never works. It will all come back on you. I know this wasn't part of your question, but please don't bring a child into an unhappy marriage, you can raise the child on your own.

Answer 9

First of all, NOBODY needs to be calling you a hoe. If anybody has never been in this situation, they have no need to answer your question. I know where you're coming from, and I would go by the dates on the ultrasound. When I was pregnant, my ultrasound tech told me that the first three months of pregnancy are very accurate on an ultrasound, it's after that, that factors make a small or larger baby.
Maybe you just ovulated later, or are wrong on your dates. also keep in mind that sperm can remain alive for up to five days after intercourse.

Answer 10

Ovulation ranges aren't absolute. You had a period at the end of March. The baby is your husbands. Work on your relationship. You have a baby coming.

Answer 11

When you marry someone you vow to be with only them. I know this question is not about that. The bottom line is if you did not cheat you would not be asking this question. It could be either man's child. Sadly, you will have to wait until the child is born, and someone will be crushed. Good luck, and next time, Don't get married.