2006-08-07 07:28:26 · 13 answers · asked by pink30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Lots of lube
2. Take control. Start at your pace and when comfortable let him take over. If he is still going...
3. Not be talked into it. You are going to want to experience it. If talked into it u will always be nervous and tense.
4. Enema an hour before. To relax the muscles and for other reasons.
Remember most guys have only see the porn version of back door sex. In reality it take a lot of time to be conferable for the both of you.
Good luck and have fun
2006-08-07 08:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by tazintampa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, when a man wants to go in the back door and the front door is not good enough for him, then there is something wrong with him, not you. That is a pain that you should not have to bare. Check your man. He may be fantasizing about the back doors of other men.
2006-08-07 14:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by genjc47 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have a lot of fun if you use a dropper to put lube inside you befor you try this I love the Pjur line of lube it's big in the gay world. I use 3 dropper fulls before I go to bed just in case my honey or I might have sex before bed and I am the happiest wife,because I am in controle. I tell him when I want to do that by telling him you want to play pony? and it's good to play with yourself while you do this because it relaxes you a lot and that is the key thing. I really really love beeing talked to dirty before dirty play. I come a lot faster. Don't mean to upset anyone. don't knok it untill you try it right!
2006-08-07 15:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by leloyoalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf likes the pain with the pleasure.
Many have liked it, some loved it, a few hated it.
Everyone is wired differently. Try Astroglide or KY to see if this makes it better.
2006-08-10 18:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have...i bought this thing call anal eaze ...i got it at a fun party i went to about a month ago.
It numbs your anal cavity and comes with a lube that he can use. The guy has to wear a condom though, if he doesnt he'll drop down and go numb.
before i got this i hated doing it...but now that i got it and tried it it really doesnt bother me.
2006-08-07 15:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Texas Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel kinda sorry for people who don't know what the Out Door is for...
Congrats for those who figured out the right way to screw a woman...
It's called her...VAGINA!
2006-08-07 14:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you all come over and talk to my GF?(except for Jenjc47 & sharon K) I was proposing this and she said she had it done rough and didn't like it, It hurt and she cried. Now her ex has spoiled it for me and no amount of talking will do the trick!
I am not her ex, and will use kid gloves...
Her name is Michael Jackson
2006-08-07 15:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by John Stamos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some head from him, and a double shot of Bacardi. How fun.
2006-08-07 18:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by ?girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep...and it's great...if it hurts with him "pushing," try getting on top where you are in control of how fast and how much pressure...sometimes it takes a minute to "get it going".....sometimes, men just get too excited and rush, or they just don't realize that it hurts...also try some ky or something similar
2006-08-07 14:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down....way down. Once you're relaxed and it's in you'll love it.
2006-08-07 14:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋