i have a friend that i don't know if she likes me as a friend anymore i think she hates me like she will put in her profile all of her friends and i wouldn't be one of them how can i tell if she is atill my friend? we use to be best friends
2006-08-07 06:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by Vball Babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you still want to be friends with her? If so, then tell her you value her friendship and ask her if she still wants to be your friend, too. It's better to know that she doesn't want to be your friend anymore than it is to fear it, because if she doesn't want to be friends anymore, then you will find that out anyway in a more painful, drawn-out way. Just as in any other relationship, friendship has to be genuine in both directions.
2006-08-07 07:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by jennytonic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her personally. She is being childish, why wouldn't she put you in her profile? She is obviously trying to make you mad. Either that or she is jealous of your for some reason. So ask her whats up and if she can't be real with you, forget her
2006-08-07 06:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her dear and clear all misunderstanding. if u were best friends then this distance can not stay for a while. i thnk u hve to talk to her clearly jst ask her whts wrong. i hope if u will do this u can find better answer than nybody can giv.
2006-08-07 06:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by jst_friends_4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must everyone opt for a circuitous route in personal relationships? Try talking to friend about it.
2006-08-07 06:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by The Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space for a few days or weeks. See what happens, maybe you've seen too much of each other lately.
2006-08-07 06:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Scoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. That's the only sure way to know. Ask her why you are not included in her list of friends. Do it by email if you can't ask her face to face.
2006-08-07 06:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her of whats her boyfriends name is, because you might be fighting because of the same boy friend.
Or you could comfort her and ask her directly whats wrong.
I've been there.
my best friend and I are friends for 5 years!
2006-08-07 06:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by ^_^' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her N O T by phone, msgs, sms, e-mail and all these things because u will get NOTHING!!! talk to her straight or because u are girls u could go together for shopping therapy, invite her to go somewhere and spend time together. like this u will understand what she feels about u. hope i helped!
2006-08-07 07:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what she wants is for you to ask whats wrong and then talk about the main issue.
2006-08-07 06:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by ironica7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you have anoyed her and she is angry about it, or may be she thinks that you do not give her much importance so she is taking revange. best way is just confront her politely and clear the confusion and tell her that you still like her just like before.
2006-08-07 07:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋