I just asked the question about not having a period before my six week check up. So now I am wondering what you think I should do. Just need some opinions. I havent got my period and the six week mark was on friday. So... this is my problem. I have had sex unprotected since three weeks after the birth of my son. I would say like twice a week. We are planning on getting married in April and tomorrow we are going to put our deposit down on the place. Which is 500 bucks to save our date. I am worried that I could possibly be pregnant again. I dont feel pregnant or anything. But if we have to cancel we lose the 500 bucks. If we wait any longer we lose our date. So Im wondering if you think I should be concerned at all? I still feel cramping every once in a while.. so I am hoping I get it.
2006-08-07 06:42:54 · 6 answers · asked by JustWondering 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If I am pregnant again, I am fine with that. We want one more. We arnt mad at that fact. We have waited to get married since we wanted a nice wedding and have the money saved. I am not blaming anyone, and if I am pregnant. I would be happy... babies are miracles.
2006-08-07 06:56:50 · update #1
when i was a few weeks pregnant, my period was late. i waited for a few weeks. in the mean time, i was experiencing some mild cramping. i thought it was the cramps you sometimes experience before your period arrives. everyday i thought it was the day i would see my period. (those damn cramps!) i felt no nausea of any kind. i went to the hospital (the cramps got worse) and they took blood. that confirmed i was pregnant. get an at home pregnancy test or see your doctor. everyone is different. you want to be sure if you're pregnant or not.
2006-08-07 07:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I have to ask WHAT made you think it would be ok to have sex without protection if you didn't want to become pregnant again so soon? You know, the doctors give that six-week period of rest for a reason!
As for the deposit, well, go ahead and put it down. Most places will let you MOVE the date, but the won't let you have your money back. If you can't change the date and you can't get your money back, then you will just have to walk down the aisle looking like the less-than-pristine-virgin bride you are, and well, you have no one to blame but yourself on that one.
2006-08-07 13:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your five hundred bucks and buy a pregnancy test or go to the Dr. You very well may be pregnant- AGAIN. Also, just go to the court house and get married. It will be like 100 bucks and from the sounds of it you will need the money. You don't need a big wedding if you already have children together. Spend your money on your kids.
2006-08-07 13:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by o2bamy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not supposed to have sex un til after your 6 week checkup pregnancy is a big yes at this rate because you didnt give your body time to heal or anything forget about everything else you need to get to the doctors because if you are pregnant then they need totest you for diseases infections etc because your body is sensitive anything can cause an infection your crazy it is to early to be having another baby
2006-08-07 14:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your doctor give you the go ahead to have sex before your 6 week check up? That's absurd!!!!. What about infection? Ghees. Go to another doctor and have everything checked asap!!!
2006-08-07 13:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok First of all did your doctor not tell you that you are very fertile at this time. If he did not i'm going to tell you that you are. very fertile i suggest not wasting any time and going to your doctor ASAP. Becouse hunny forget about a hunny moon and think of buying 2 times as much diapers.
2006-08-07 13:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋