im just a fat person wanting real answers
2006-08-07 06:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by cantutenn 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Nothing - you are maybe looking at the wrong guys! I am a F.A.T. girl, and had no problem dating after my divorce...contrary to what some of my family thought. They were saying "lose wieght, dress fancier, start wearing make-up", etc But I felt that would be false advertising. It wouldn't be 'me', And I have lost weight before, only to gain it back. So I know any guy that dated me while thinner would want me to stay that way, more than likely. I put a current picture on yahoo personals, and picked 'thick' for my body type category, and...whoa!
Men really WERE interested! Some were big guys themselves, most were pretty average in weight. I like either/or, personally, so I dated whoever I thought sounded interesting - after much online & phone chatting weeded some out. So, maybe you should try that route & your luck will be better. Many men who do like voluptous, curvy, & bigger women are older (35+), since they are more mature & less influenced by what the media tells them they should like. I am 42, so this was fine for me. But if you are younger, I still bet there are guys out there,too. Only one way to find out! And keep your head up & be proud of what you are because confidence counts & does come through your body language - remember, these will not be true blind dates, they have seen your profile & want to meet you. Happy dating & good luck!
2006-08-07 06:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of guys that date heavy women. Actually my husbands friend has no interest in skinny woman or even average sized woman he wants them plus sized and he is a skinny man.
I think that if you are looking for a man and having a hard time then you are looking in the wrong places.
2006-08-07 06:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but you wanted honest, so:
I don't like fat people. I can't see their bone structures, or the was their muscles move. Those are the things that make me happy.
But there are a LOT of guys who don't think this way, and who LOVE a little meat, some like A WHOLE LOT of meat.
So, there's someone for everyone!
You'll find someone who loves you, and finds you attractive, so don't worry!
2006-08-07 06:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by OraclewannaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, most men's ideal woman is shaped by the mass media. Thankfully, there are some who have a more realistic opinion of what is sexy in spite of Madison Avenue.
2006-08-07 06:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do not know who you really are.
Look at only the physical and the inner
beauty that is what counts.
You radiate the real you and someone
will see that and the size will not matter.
Keep continuing to take care of you.
2006-08-07 06:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by tychi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men prefer skinny women. I know tons of dudes who perfer women with "meat".
2006-08-07 06:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by minus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with overweight women, some guys are just shallow. There is someone for everyone. You need to find that someone for you.
2006-08-07 06:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitlyn <33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of men who prefer larger ladies... !!! It is just the media world that say that men prefer skinny ladies, no?
2006-08-07 06:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by deli_cate2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys look at the extra skin and on skinny woman they don't they can where skimpy clothes
2006-08-07 06:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rondi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a gal with a lil meat on her bones...but really fat chicks usually have smelly vaginas & butts....it's like they can't reach 'em to give 'em a good cleaning or they just don't clean 'em, or something. It's gross!
2006-08-07 06:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋