Girls does this ever happen to you ...?

Question

when your walking down the street, in the mall or just at the beach by yourself with your girlfriends whereever.And some guy or guys want to"holler"at you.And theyre like"hey what's up ma come here!!"(first off I take that kind language as disrespect, Mami? wtf lol.)Anyways, He's ugly as hell.You keep on walking,shaking your head and tell them no or you that have a bf!! and they tell yell at you and say:"***** you ugly anyways, you don;t know what your missing","you don't know what your missing"or they say something else very rude!!! HAHA Why?

Guys are so dumb when they get rejected you can tell that they get all butt hurt about it!!! I mean they yell at girl thinking that it's love at first sight and think we're going to feel them since they are "hollering" at us.YELLING:"AY AY MAMI AY SWEETIE AY SEXY!"SUCH A TURN OF RIGHT THERE. GUYS HAVE NO MANERS. sometime they dont even see the girls face and try to "holler" at her from seeing their behinds!

Has this ever happened to you?

Im just bringing this subject up because it's so annoying. I didnt mean that all guys are dumb. I say that they get dumb when you turn them down.
This happends to me everyday!!!

Besides I have a boyfriend. And guys compliment him when we are out together. Or if we go out to eat and he steps away to go to the bathroom the try to converse with me.

*they try to

I never said I was getting offended.

It's just irritating at times. I don't even dress like a hoochie or anything and I still get a lot of attention. I more of like a jeans, heels and a cute top kinda person.

I mean why can't they like just say "hi".
But instead they SAY: " Daaaaaaaaamn sexy!" hahaha
I love the attention.
But on the other hand. I just think it's disrespectful when they are out with their baby mothers and try to holler. I don;t want any trouble.

I ignore them!!! Sometimes I just wave and walk away.

ok so some of you guys might be looking at my main picture. I don;t dress like that. that was for a runway show. I could go out dressed in sweats and a tshirt getting gas and it still happends. People honk, and yell out their windows. Yeah of course im flattered by all of this. But some just don;t have any maners. I mean if i was insterested why am I running away and ignoring them. But then they try to chase and are lik:"where you going girl!?" kinda creepy if you think about it.

I've even had someone follow me into a parking structure. Ran accross the street, almost got hit by a car, And I didnt even see them comming. I am aware on how I carry myself. I don't have my boobies popping out., my thong showing.

I'm not like one of those xxxxx large chick who's thinking they look good in booty shorts and a tight shirt that shows all of their curvy humps. hahaha. Nah. i've never worn booty shorts in public but in my home to sleep in.

what im trying to say that it has gotten to the point where i'm scared to set foot out side my house!!!unless it is to go to school or work. =( serisouly.
I used to go jogging every morning. I don't anymore.

I just wanted to see how other girls personally feel about this????

Answer 1

yes this actualy use to happen to me a lot before i got married, now my husband is always with me...when there is more than one guy..usualy they tend to act like that, then they need to say something rude to save face infront of there friends because they just got rejected, when you get older..the men will start to act a bit more mature and this will stop...just don't pay any attention to it.

Answer 2

Yes my "sistah" it probably happens to most women. Men are men and it is what it is. However, I don't think that you are humble about it because you just continue to go on and on about how they try to holler at you; but has it ever dawned on you that maybe something in your body language encourages it? Espcially when you say you're out with your bf and they still try. Now days, because people are so crazy most men no longer outright disrespect another man simply because they never know who's packing and who's not. So I find some of what you say about how the men are constantly trying to get at you kind of hard to believe. However, as for the rejection; not only men-but basically rejection is just hard for anybody................

Answer 3

this has happened to me MANY times, especially living down south.

i get..."hey red, hey ma"...or the worst one...they make this hissing sound like a snake or something to get my attention. i feel so disgusted and turned off by this disrespect. and just because I don't give them the attention that they want, I suddenly be called a ***** or "not all that"

the shyt is annoying but almost humerous... it can be a real nuesance though when i'm trying to enjoy my day.

i don't know what to say except, i'll take the compliment that these guys find me attractive but i can only shake my head with annoyance that these FOOLS can't get it together

LOL... and what's even funnier??? I'm a lesbian!!! LMAO!!!

Answer 4

Good for you!!! Keep ignoring them ;-)

I know it makes you mad for a while after hearing what they have to say. But don't waste your brain cells on this kind of stuff. When this happens again, tell yourself "I've got better things to think about." And as you get older, it won't bother you as much like it does now.

(BTW, I see some people answering to you, who might act like those rude boys you are talking about. Ignore them, too.)

Answer 5

Yes. You can tell who had a decent upbringing and who did not. If I caught my son doing that to a woman or a girl, He'd never hear the end of it. In fact, he gets very irritated when he sees men doing this to me. It happens alot when I am driving. Some guy will drive by and start DROOLING over me. All I am doing is driving. I am not naked. I am not playing with myself or licking my lips or ANYTHING. It's sad.

Answer 6

yes many times because of where i stay at. they get angry when you turn them down because you probably hurt their feelings. believe it or not guys can be more sensitive than girls they just don't show it. so they do it by trying to hurt your feelings back. sometimes i just want to walk over there and smack them with a brick. or hit them in the throat so they can't say anything else.

Answer 7

This has happened to me before but i just ignored them. If they keep on bothering me i ask them if they have mothers, wives or daughters and if they would like for an a*******e to do the same thing to them. And if they keep it off i tell them that if the don't want me to sue their as*** they better live me alone 'cause what their doing is sexual harrasment and that they can go to jail for it and i wouldn't mind doing that to them because they are worthless pieces of s**t.

Answer 8

i was leaving the mall once, and i was on the cell phone with my bf, and a couple of guys pulled up in a truck and the driver asked if he could call me when i got done. I said no thanks. they started laughing really loud, then they started barking at me. guys here's a tip- if you EVER want girls to respect you, you have to have some class. otherwise, you just make yourself look like an idiot and doom yourself to be turned down by any hott girl for the rest of your life, none of us who are worth dating appreciated being yelled at or cat-called in public.

Answer 9

Some guys hit on ugly girls like you for an easy lay. It's a common practice. Most guys are intimidated by good-looking women so they settle for lesser ones.

Hope that helps, mami!

; )

Answer 10

I was driving along when these guys pulled their car along side and started to 'hey, there' etc. It kept up for a couple of blocks when I pulled in and parked. They pulled in along side and tried to pick me up. I opened the door and got out - nine months pregnant. Did they shut up fast. I laughed and laughed and laughed!!!