Need advice on how to cope with seeing my ex with her new boyfriend, sometimes I go out and see them together?

Answer 1

Just act as through it does not bother you. You need to move on in life. There is some one out there for you. Just wait and see. Try not to look at them when you are out, I know it must be hard.

Answer 2

1st of all, 10 months into a relationship is to soon to be thinking about marriage and/or a child. And you can't change the past, accept it and move on. You may also think about the fact that he will have to deal with her for a least another 16 yrs. Or unless, he gets a good woman like yourself that will stick by him, help him get back on his feet and record some of the ex's rages, then sue for full custody of the child. If you really love him, take it as it comes, and keep on going. Mother's like the ex, always end up loosing in the end. What comes around, goes around. Good luck

Answer 3

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/JzqIQ

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 4

Smile lots, laugh, don't look at them too much, enjoy yourself, keep busy, arrange nights out with mates and maybe you'll meet someone new. It can be annoying when you feel yoou're missing out, esp if you still have feelings for someone and see that person wif someone else. You'll get over it though. Listen to music, cheer yourself up and know that the right gal isout there for you. ;) all da best dude.

Answer 5

well just use this as a tool to try to forget her dont remember good times they hurt just the bad times they make you feel so much better and when you se them make sure they see you that way bcause when she sees how your not upset she will then think (hey maybe i done the wrong thing) be cool mate i too am hurting like mad after being dumped you can sound off to me anytime

Answer 6

The question is do you still love or like to be feeling wearied about. Maybe you should talk to her about getting better together and see what she if you want to but you have to make the decision your self.

hope I helped any dude.

Answer 7

By letting this bother you, you are only making yourself look weak. Not to mention making yourself a target for ridicule.

Let it go, man. Move on. Plenty of other chicks out there. She has a new man, and as hard as it will be, it is time to move on.

Answer 8

I know how you feel. Maybe try and avoid places where you know they go although that sometimes can't be helped. I suggest going out with some mates and taking your mind off of it all. Times heals.

Answer 9

OUCH feel your pain hold your head up forget move on makes you feel sick but you'll find life more worth while. not your fault just happens leave them be she'll be up the stick soon enough dont worry you'll find love again! keep smiling

Answer 10

depends why she is the ex, natural ending someone cheated?
if she cheated then you could always punch the bloke each time you see him or politely say hello and go on about your business.