2006-08-07 06:17:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Be very clear and straightforward - no sexual contact if he does not wear a condom. It is your body and you have a right to specify the dress code to anyone whom you are letting onto and into your body. If you want to, for a little spice and excitement offer to and then do help him or take over putting the condom on him so that you know it is in place before starting the proceedings. If he does not want to wear a condom, I would definitely not have sex with him, and secondarily, I would not continue to have any kind of relationship with someone who did not respect my wishes in such an important matter.
Good luck, but be firm and don't give in, no matter what type of line or excuse that he gives you...
2006-08-07 06:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him that you need him to use the condom otherwise no sex. It sounds like you don't trust this guy enough to use a condom.
If you don't feel intimate enough with this guy to discuss condoms and the what ifs than it sounds like he isn't the guy to have sex with.
2006-08-07 13:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Require him to use a condom or don't have sex with him. If you need to buy condoms and hand it to him during. Too many diseases out there.
2006-08-07 13:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by It's a secret! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to have sex, any time; without a condom. If you are younger that 18, you should wait. You will be glad that you waited until you are older.
2006-08-07 13:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your 1st time or even if it is not, he should respect you enough to want to use a condom. If he doesn't then tell him your not going to have sex. There's to much at stake.
2006-08-07 13:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? if your under the age of 17, then don't do it at all, wait and talk to your parents first, cause even if you both use a condom, it's still not 100% protection, you could still get pregnet or get a deseese. befour you think about having sex, you should be thinking about what you're going to do if you get pregnet, or some kind of deseese. and PLEASE, PLEASE DON"T GET PREGNET IF YOU'RE NOT READY, it's not fair to the baby.
2006-08-07 13:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Fox29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You INSIST on him wearing a condom EVERY time. NO EXCEPTIONS!
If the guy won't wear a condom, then he's a walking STD infection. Steer clear of him!
2006-08-07 13:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him oral, and then pull the condom out of your pocket and put it on. If you dont feel comfortable asking him.
But ask him first, and if this is your first time, im sure you have planed it out with him, thats why your asking this question
2006-08-07 13:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him that is he doesn't have a condom on that nothing is going to happen
2006-08-07 13:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he doesnt get to unless he wears his raincoat. Simple as that, no sex for him unless he's wearing a condom
2006-08-07 13:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by surf_jayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋