I have a girlfriend, whom I love dearly. I don't feel comfortable to mention names here. Last night, we went to a party together. But she fell ill during the night, and wanted to leave. I took her home, and she said that her purse was still there. So I went back to find it, obviously.
Another friend of mine, who is a girl, ran into me while I was there. I told her I needed help finding my GF's purse, and she helped me. Before I left, she started talking to me, asking about my relationship and such. I was going to leave, when she grabbed me and started kissing me wildly, saying that she would be better than the one I'm with now.
I got angry, and told her not to interfere with me and my girlfriend. Then I left. I need to know, how should I break this to my GF? The girl at the party has had interest in me before, and my girlfriend knows it. Will she accuse ME of trying something? I'm confused....
2006-08-07 06:12:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honesty is the best policy. When you hide something it makes you look guilty. I would be honest and your girlfriend should respect that.
Now what if someone saw her kiss you and told your girlfriend and she approached you and then you decide to tell her the truth, then you will now look like your guilty also or condone what this person did.
Be honest and do all to save your relationship before this other person ruins it. Don't give her what she wants.
2006-08-07 06:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, tell your girlfriend right away so it doesn't seem like your hiding anything. If you don't tell her then this other girl or some of her firneds might just to try and break you two up.
As to what words to use, start out by pointing out her suspicions. "Honey, I know you have pointed uot this girls interest in me before, so Iwanted to tell you about what she did last night. Please understand I'm telling you this because I care about you and want you to hear the truth from me." Make sure you tell your GF that you told this other girl exactly how it is and that you in no way led her on or gave her permission to touch you.
Your girlfriend might get mad, but she'll be mad at this other girla nd maybe even want to confront the other girl. Tell her its best to let the situation go becuase you've already set it straight with her.
2006-08-07 13:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Greggath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, if there is a lot of trust in your relationship, you have nothing to worry about, since you did nothing wrong. If your girlfriend is not very trusting, or you have given her reason to doubt you before, she will probably feel a little betrayed, and may take it out on you, but you will be able to explain to her that you didn't initiate it, and you stopped it right away, and then her anger will be taken out on the girl! The main thing is, that you DO tell her, because she will find out, no matter what, and it will make you look guilty if she hears it from someone else first.
2006-08-07 13:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleandme4yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her. You can't have a long lasting relationship with someone and start keeping secrets. Tell her what happened. Tell her that you are going to stop talking to the other girl. And do it. Because you have to figure out who is more important to you. Obviously its your gf. If the other girl is going to jeopardize your relationship with the one you love you need to avoid her.
2006-08-07 13:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by hellrazor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just come out and tell her that this chick hit on you and you told her to back off, things should be good. The only way she would get angry is if you had a thing with this girl way back.
2006-08-07 13:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her ASAP. If she hears it from someone else she will think you are trying to hide something. If you have nothing to hide then tell her because if it was at a party chances are someone else seen her kiss you. And you never know it just may be the girl who kisses you that will tell her out of spite.
2006-08-07 13:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to hide it. Tell your GF and Tell this other woman that she must face the fact that you are not interested. Or have your GF tell her calmly, Not in a freak-out rage.
2006-08-07 13:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i compliment ur actions of telling the girl to back off.
As for ur situation, i suggest just telling ur GF the truth, dont make anything up.....just tell her and make sure you keep your words honest and sincere!!! Good Luck!
2006-08-07 13:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Scooby Doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be HONEST with you girlfriend. If you are she will have no reason to doubt you. If she finds out from someone else then she may think you were hiding it from her.
2006-08-07 13:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her because if she finds out from the girl that u kissed her she will wonder why you didnt tell her.
2006-08-07 13:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋