Sex with anyone who is not you husband or wife is wrong. You know that. So, I'm interested in hearing what you have to say to God in argument that it's "Okay." Especially when you've made your children "bastards."
2006-08-07 05:44:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Mathew1:25 N.I.V. But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son.And he gave gave him the name Jesus.................Mathew 1:25 King James Version And he knew her not till she had brought forth her first born son. If we are to abide by biblical standards in a modern world may I ask would Joseph and Mary be considered married if they did not consumate their union until after the birth of Jesus.
2006-08-07 06:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When "God" comes down and tells me that sex without anyone but my husband is wrong (I'm not married), then I'll believe him. With so much going on in the world I'll also ask him why his followers don't pay attention to more important things. Seems like having little "bastards" around is minute compared to the big picture.
My suggestion is that you educate yourself and not be so blinded by the written word. After all, the Bible was written by man not "God".
2006-08-07 12:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by ·!¦[·ÐarrÁ·]¦!· 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially when you've made your children "bastards." ? and I am intrested to see, what your argument to God is about, regarding how judgmental you are? Also your assumption that all sin is not equal, did you know know its all the same in eyes of God therefore, what makes you any better than anyone else. As you too are a sinner. Shall we not forget that Jesus mixed with the like likes of prostitutes and thieves. Now im not religious, however your stupid opinion lend me to throw your stupid comments back at you!
2006-08-07 13:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by jessica_mornington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean premarital sex or extramarital affairs?
My justification for my premarital sex is that I have only one partner, and she's my first, and I love her, so I don't see the problem with giving each other pleasure and happiness. And we use protection, so "bastards" are not a problem. However, I've always had a problem with that word. It's a bit mean, isn't it? It's not the child's fault he's a bastard, so why label him thusly? The sins of the father should not become the sins of the son. I don't know how the original quote goes, but that's how it should go.
As for extramarital affairs, that's ****ed up.
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2006-08-07 14:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by i_am_the_bmf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason ANYONE would be considered a bastard is because of judgemental people like yourself. If you have a genuine concern for children growing up in broken homes, maybe you should look into community programs designed to help educate young people about abstinance, etc. Your questions are insulting and they are ineffective in getting people to think about God and morals. What I have to say to God is none of your business. Oh, and BTW.... You are no better than anyone else. We are all sinners.
2006-08-07 13:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I am perfect, but God knows what I do. And I have no children. I practice safe sex with my boyfriend we have been together for 6 years and I enjoy the love we make together and I hope one day he will be the father of my children. Right now, I am not ready for marriage or a baby but I DO have time on the weekends with my boyfriend and we enjoy every second of each others company whether it's playing cards, to making love, or just sleeping together.
2006-08-07 12:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do seem to take a particular interest in bastard children. I'm not saying I disagree with your points, but people do have to learn their own lessons. If no one sinned then we would not need Jesus. God understands people's weaknesses and will forgive them if they ask.
By the way, I was quite shocked as a child to find out I had been born out of wedlock. Still, I wish they had never married at all as my dad was very abusive.
2006-08-07 13:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only wrong according to you. If there was a god we could discuss that aspect of it. I have never noticed a difference between bastard children and non bastard children. How do I point them out?
2006-08-07 12:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everyone in the world believes exactly as you do.
Sweetheart, just because you believe something with all your heart doesn't make it true. Clapping doesn't bring fairies back to life and shouting that a good time between consenting adults is wrong, doesn't make your viewpoint any more correct than theirs.
I agree that cheating on your spouse is wrong because you are breaking and tarnishing the vow you took when you got married. But your holier than thou attitude does little to improve secular relationships and does a lot to hurt their view of your faith.
Let people be people.
2006-08-07 12:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with someone who isn't your wife is NOT wrong. It's fun. Would you rather your husband or wife stayed celebate up until your wedding night and then found out they were crap in bed, or would you rather be with someone who knew what they were doing?
By the way, if my kids grow up to be anything like me, they're going to bastards regardless of whether or not they're conceived in wedlock.
2006-08-07 12:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋