He say their friends only and she comment him saying that she's going to be at the club and it'll be nice to see him there!!! and i told him that if he goes to the club than it's over between me n him!!! what do u think i should tell him or what should i do??
2006-08-07 05:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by miss_xiong03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should have trust in him that he will be faithful to you. Just because they are going to be in the same club doesn't mean that they are going to end up having sex in the back. Trust is a very important factor in any relationship.
2006-08-07 05:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 7⤊ 4⤋
Look, he still has unfinished business, and it is getting in the way. he is stringing you along, or her. He is still communicating with her, so it's most likely you. Either way, you deserve someone who is into you, and you only. Forgive him for his shortcomings, thank him for teaching you what to avoid in future relationships, and move on with your life. It will be hard, and you will feel like you're in shock, at first, but it will pass.
Raise your standards. You don't have time to allow yourself to be treated badly or strung along. If you do, you seem desperate, and only attract control freaks and narcissistic jerks.
Require more. Don't get emotionally invested too early. Don't date someone exclusively unless they are willing to do the same. Here's a tip: If you date only guys who are ok with not being the only guy you're dating, then they treat you better, knowing they have competition for your affection. You are a woman, so you have your pick of the guys out there, even if you don't think so.
Think about the animal kingdom. It's the males who have to cmpete for the females. We live in a male-dominated society that is trying to change animal nature, and pressure females to think they have to compete for males. Not so. It just makes males feel better to think so. Think about it.
Lose the loser. Let it become HER problem now. It will make you feel better if you tell her that, to. "You can have him back. I can do better. He's your problem now."
2006-08-07 05:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a cheater then he will cheat no matter what you do. The fact that he is not hiding this from you leads me to believe he does not have intentions on cheating with his ex or he would be sneaky about it. A good way to get cheated on or dumped is to accuse him of this when you have no proof. Stop worrying about what might happen and just enjoy the ride. Maybe you should get chummy with his ex if they are still friends. Keep your friends close but your enemies even closer.
2006-08-07 05:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they're probably just friends, but if you suspect something more, don't be afraid to dump him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. My best friend had a boyfriend that spent more time at this club talking to his ex's and girl "just friends" than he did talking to her, and it bothered her a lot. So do what you think is right. Or confront him directly and ask him to be honest.
2006-08-07 05:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wen he goes ask to go with him and see what he says. If he says "no" then there is a problem. You might want to think about finding someone else. It depends on how strong your relationship is. Is the trust there? What about honesty?
2006-08-07 05:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use be stuck in "Ex's can be friends" well now that i found the man i want to spend my life with! Who cares about my ex's...
If you both truely love each other then talk to him say i understand she is your friend and an ex.. and i don't want to make you choice! but if you really love me and are friends with me i perfur you not to be as socail with her! say hi or what not...
ask why they are friends!~ then ask why they are not together! if they are such good friends!
It may hurt you doing this but at least you see if he loves you for real or not!
2006-08-07 05:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes a really great boyfriend, then you shouldnt break up with him and you should ask to go with him to the club. if he says...NO than it means that hes hiding something and therefore hes not a good bf. but if he says yes than go with him and see what happends. a good bf doesnt hide anything, so if he says no, break up with him, and if you dont want to ask him then just break up with him cause your better than that. good luck grl!
~jenny
2006-08-07 05:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that they are just friends. my ex and his friends that were girls hung out all the time and i dint mind. show him that it matters that u are hanging out with other girls and hat it makes you jelous and he will know that you care about him and he won't cheat on you. and if you threaten him then he might think that he has to choose between you and his friends and he will choose his friends. and then you will loose him for sure.
2006-08-07 05:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get your needs met with someone you meet in yahoo answers.
2006-08-07 05:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to find someone else.. with no string's attached.
2006-08-07 05:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by xx_ladyxluck_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋