Okay. I've had a friend that I could tell anything to. And lately, he wont stop asking me out!! I really don't know what to say anymore... I've told him once that I only think of him as a brother and he still wont stop!! My brain has run out of ways to say no, but still be nice!
2006-08-07 05:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Persistent isn't he?
If you could tell him anything, then you shouldn't have any problem telling him that you will be his friend but that's all the further it will ever go. But then make sure you don't act or use body language that tells him differently. In other words, if your lips say no make sure everything else does too so there's no mixed message.
2006-08-07 05:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously can't be nice to this guy anymore. he's just not on the level. i mean really if he would get the idea and just be your friend then, you wouldn't even be asking this question. i mean just tell him that you aren't attracted to him in that way because you seem him like a family and in your book that would be incest. so no. or just tell him that you are just not willing to **** and kiss your brother. and when he says i'm not your brother then you tell him well your the closest thing that i've had to one.
2006-08-07 05:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will go out with him as a friend. Let him know that you do not want to do anything to risk your friendship with him. Tell him his friendship means too much to you.
If he tries to be anything more than a friend, that is his problem, you warned him already that he is like a brother. Good luck to you.
2006-08-07 05:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nice. This guy is obviously in love with you. So next time he asks just CRUSH him tell him you're gay tell him the truth. tell him to never ask again or you will never speak to him. He'll realize that you're a bit@h and leave you to grow into the crazy old cat lady that you are destine to be.
2006-08-07 05:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you are not his sister. Your friendship is not balance you get what you want from him by just being friends, but he does not.
Either you tell him to stop asking you or you stop the friendship, cause is not fair for none of you.
2006-08-07 05:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a certain point babe, nice is not an option. Be firm with him. And tell him if he persists then you are not going to be friends with him any longer.
2006-08-07 05:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes acting this way because youre a really close friend
2006-08-07 05:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use caller ID AND dont answer the phone.
2006-08-07 05:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋