my wife has a friend who i never thought was cute til i hung around her and she is a innocent girl but she is starting to act naughty and i find that a real turn on.i love my wife but i hate my sex life and want to have more sex and she doesn't.and i want to try and flirt with her and see if she flirts back and if she does should i go all the way with it?
2006-08-07 05:30:07 · 80 answers · asked by jack of all trades 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure you should go for it. If you want to be a real dick. Good luck with the divorce.
2006-08-07 05:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't suggest that. Instead have a nice honest converstaion with your wife about your situation. It's not worth being unfaithful to your wife as she is suppose to be your live partner and you did hopefully take your vows seriously when you exchanged them. Flirting with a friend of your wifes will only complicate matters a whole lot for you, your wife and her friend. Flirting whether it is with a friend, stranger of any other person is just not cool in relationships. I'm sure that your wife would feel betrayed and very hurt by your actions. Besides you state that you love your wive, so why not do something that might improve your relationship rather than destroy it. Even if that includes marriage counselling or some other services that may be available in your area.
2006-08-07 05:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a dangerious game you are playing at.
Lets look at this objectively. Instead of putting in the effort and understanding it takes to make your marriage work for everyone, your first thought is to betray your marriage, break your vows, and discredit yourself perminantly by having an affair...with the dumbest choice possible, your wifes best friend.
Why not instead tell your wife how you really feel, explain that you want more sex and how does she feel about that, and what can you do to make her more receptive? If she blocks you, or dismisses your repeated attempts at communication over this issue then be a MAN and divorce her. Don't be a little boy and just shirk your responciblities, your promise (vow) to remain faithfull.
Think it through, even if you get laid by your wife's best friend, how long do you think before your wife finds out, or you piss off the best friend and she tells out guilt/spite/mischeivious reasons?
Not only is this situation shaping up like a 747 crashing into a nuclear missle, but at least the pilot of the 747 could honestly say he saw it coming.
2006-08-07 05:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by magerious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you shouldn't. Sounds like things are lacking with the wife. What are you doing to spice things up with the wife? Why don't you try working on that, rather than paying attention to your wife's best friend.
I don't condone affairs, but if it's sex that you're looking for, why not limit the damage and get it outside of your wife's circle of friends.
Cheating is one thing, but destroying a marriage and a friendship bond is really something you want to risk for an orgasm?
Take the high road, and see what you can fix, otherwise move on.
2006-08-07 05:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=( If you have a marriage issue you need to speak with your wife. If you truly loved her you wouldn't want to betray her AND take away her best friend at the same time. How would you feel if she did that to you?
I think you need to communicate with your wife about how important and unsatsified you are. And if she is still not willing to fix the relationship than seperate.
And I think there is a million beautiful girls out there, if you need to f*ck one for sh*ts and giggles you really should find someone who's NOT your wife's best friend. Betraying your marriage is hurtful enough but to do it with her best friend.... thats just cruel.
No I don't think you should go all the way with it. No you shouldn't hit on her.
2006-08-07 05:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like things are lacking with the wife. What are you doing to spice things up with the wife? Why don't you try working on that, rather than paying attention to your wife's best friend.
I don't condone affairs, but if it's sex that you're looking for, why not limit the damage and get it outside of your wife's circle of friends.
Cheating is one thing, but destroying a marriage and a
2014-10-13 08:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know better. You should never go for the best friend. Cheating is bad enough but at least have the courtesy to get someone that your wife doesn't know and have contact with. I would have said have the decency but there is nothing decent about your intentions or thoughts. Maybe you and your wife could work on spicing up your married sex life. There's a thought. If you value your marriage, try to take care of home and don't bring others in on your marriage.
2006-08-07 05:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most def..... NOT... look at it like this. What would you do if you knew your wife was attracted and actually thinking of sleeping with your best friend? Not only would this affect your lives but those around you as well. If you do decide to flirt, who is to say her friend wont tell your wife you have made advances to her? Also how can you say you love your wife when you are actually having thoughts of being unfaithful. Talk to her about your not being satisfied with your sex life. At least give her a chance to try and accommodate your sex drive. Just a suggestion, I hope it works out for you.
2006-08-07 05:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of women in the world. Don't complicate your life by flirting with or having an affair with the best friend of your wife. If you must be unfaithful, do it with a stranger. Why are you having a problem anyway, is your brain hanging between your legs?
2006-08-07 05:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to that one. You just want to have someone tell you it's all right though, to deny your conscience and just "go for it." Not gonna happen buddy. Your REAL answer lies deep within your heart already, as well, and that is to let your wife know just how much you're in need of sex, and that it's making your mind wander to other women. If she loves you, and has no issues from her past (like rape or incest) that keep her turned off about sex, then she'll realize she's been neglecting those needs of yours and start making up for it. If she's incapable of meeting your needs, then you both need to be adult about it and either compromise or dissolve the marriage and allow each other to pursue other partners who will actually be capable of making each of you happy. Good luck to you!
2006-08-07 05:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to wreck ur marriage,if u want to disrespect ur wife,and if u want this gal pal to know u can given into moments of being a despicable spineless cheat,WHY NOT??!But if u want to do something better with ur wife,get unpredictably gentle or dominating...try and win her over in a why that she'd be dying to get into bed with u...try the 'Masters and Johnsons' therapy which'll rekindle ur passion for each other like never before & u 2 can live happily ever after & quit pestering us with ur perverse queries..!!
2006-08-07 05:38:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋