What are you guys thinking??? I see you guys asking and looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend. Wondering about how to have sex. Asking about dating. Wondering if you are pregnant. Why?? Why are you guys doing these things?? At 11-13 years old I was still into barbie. I didn't want a boyfriend. And sex, forget it!! I never knew anybody at your age wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend or having sex. In fact I really didn't know anybody that was having sex until my Jr. year of high school.
I don't understand why your parents are allowing you to do this to yourself. And if they are not allowing you why are you disobeying them. They tell you "NO" for a reason. They love you and know what is best for you. Please respect your parents and do what they say. To respect your parents it to respect your self!
2006-08-07 05:27:04 · 26 answers · asked by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By the way. I am 33 years old. I have a 3 year old son and one baby on the way in Dec. And I was a virgin on my wedding night at he age of 28.
Saving your self for your husband/wife is the best thing to do for your self.
2006-08-07 05:28:19 · update #1
PS: I will not allow my children to date until they are 16 years old. I will not even allow them to group date until they are 16.
2006-08-07 05:34:09 · update #2
Gosh, everything you said was so beautifully well-said... thank you!! For some time, I've been so down at the fact that so many are trying to grow up so fast (and in the most immature ways, too, like drinking and early sex)! Not saying I'm a perfect angel, sometimes I catch myself thinking about such and such which will only happen in years and years, but still. There some kids out there who... don't seem to be kids at all! Full of sin, no respect to anything, anyone... it's terrribly sad. And most parents take no responsbility!! I'd like to ask some of THEM, "Parents; are you crazy?" Some adults are just letting their kids completely independant way too early. On the computer, outside, with friends, everything. I mean, some thirteen year olds are getting waaayyy too revealing on the net. I was asking a question, "Why are so many girls naive?" and one girl answered me that she once saw AN ELEVEN YEAR OLD NAKED AND GRABBING HERSELF. What's the meaning of this??? What's this world going to? Are fifteen year olds going to start marrying and having children like 500 years ago or something? Geez. Poeple are getting older and older, so why do everything NOW? Kids are getting more time and years to do things, so... it's just sad. Weird. Pathetic, really. I think the media should seriously think about what they're causing here, and parents should start thinking too. Well, I've let out everything I needed, and have just to say thank for saying this. May your children grow well and be safe. Hope you enjoyed what I said and good luck!! :)
2006-08-07 06:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 13, and I got something to say for you: Don't try to sheild your children from the world when they're 11-14 just because your afraid they'll get into sex. If you don't inform them about it, and tell them all the risks, then they'll get interested and curious. No matter what you do, they'll be curious about sex, but if you teach them morals and values, then they wont act on it (the curiosity). I plan on being a virgin until marriage, and I'm wondering why there are few doing the same.
2006-08-07 05:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. I am 22 and married, with three step kids. I defiantly couldn't have handled all the emotional stress that comes with kids when I was 11-14 or even 14-18 The only way I see to not deal with kids at that age is to be focused on more things than sex. and who's dating who
2006-08-07 05:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that age level, and I am totally and completely against it. I'm against pre-marital sex in general, and intend to stay a virgin until my wedding night like you. I do not understand why people my age feel the need to do stuff like that. Kissing, fine, but there is no need to go any farther. Why would you want to? With an 13 year old who's barely hit puberty? I don't get people.
2006-08-07 05:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by nameless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im right with you, Im 33 with an 11 year old boy and a 6 year old boy and its tuff..I told my 11 year old he isint allowed to date until he is 16 years old if his grades stay good.. I try to moniter my children like with the music they listen to I mean have you sat down and listened to some of the words in these songs its horrible..I dont let them watch alot of television because everything on TV is sex related..My kids love playing outside and they both for being young have taking an intrest in working out and wrestling...I think if we moniter what our children watch and hear it could help..The things in society I feel are corupting our youth because everything is sex..Im even scared to let my kid play on the computer I have to be there with him to make sure hes not getting himself into trouble on the computer..Im not trying to be strict I just feel as a parent there are certain things that should be for childrens eyes and ears..
2006-08-07 05:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wish I was a virgin on my wedding night, but then again, sex would've hurt and I wouldn't have enjoyed it so much. Probably been scared too. I was 28 when I got married.
Anyway, kids are curious. Their parents don't monitor them on the computer as they should.
2006-08-07 05:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pregnant lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that some of these kids are just looking for a rise out of us. I can not even imagine, that they are serious. When I was 11 I was still into building forts with my brother and playing kickball are school. I feel for these kids that obviously have NO parental supervision. I wish that we could just buy them a sticker book and send them to summer camp. These poor kids are trying to act like adults and most adults I know are trying to recapture their youth. I really just hope that they don't reproduce! Thank you for bring this up!!!!!!
2006-08-07 05:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame the kids here, I blame the PARENTS........I too, have 2 children (a19 year old virgin and a 4 year old)........If these parents would get off their sorry asses and see what their kids were doing, instead of letting the computer or the video game or the TV watch them, maybe they would know what is going on in their kids' lives.........My hubby and I both work full time jobs (he works days and I work afternoons) so having to work has NOTHING to do with it.............
2006-08-07 05:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I so hear u, they just end up getting pregnant and giving that child a sorry asss life. full of neglect, bad parenting or no parenting at all sometimes. no education, in jail, homeless. They should be some kind of birthcontrol that has to be instered in their skin for a long term. they should be genetically sterilized or something this is out of control.
2006-08-07 05:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I agree, kids are in too big of a hurry to grow up, and play house, until the baby arrives then its the girls parent supporting the child, cause Daddy has split.
2006-08-07 05:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋