I Have Ask Him To Stop Writing To Her She Younger Then Me. Then I Ask Him Today If He Want To Date Her And He Told ME No I Dont Have Time To Date Anyone.So Does That Mean Me To That He Has No Time To Date Me To. We Live in The Same House It His House But I Live With Him I Have Even Asked Him To StopWriting To The Girl. He Told Me That He Just Being Nice To Her And Saying That She Look Nice And Sexy . This Has Been Going On For Some Time Now. And He Wont Stop He Just Tell Me That He Loves Me And Want To Be With Me. He Wont Stop I Have Ask Him To Stop And He Told Me That There Is Nothing Wrong With Tellling A Hot Girl That She Hot. I Think There Is Do All You Think That There Is Something Wrong With Him Emailing Her This Stuff She Is Over Half His Age Younger. Well Let Me Know If I Should B Worried About This. And What I Can Try And Do About It I Have Asked Him To Stop. But He Has Not Stop He Say There Is Nothing Wrong With It Please Tell Me What You All Think .
2006-08-07 05:20:00 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get some respect for yourself!!! Move out and move on! If he is going to talk to another female in front of you, then who knows what he's doing when you aren't around. I don't care if you look like Quasimoto from the hunchback of Notre Dame, you need to have some self- respect and self- worth not to just sit there and let him not treat you like a queen! Girl you better wake up or else you will be stuck there with 5 kids, getting the crap beat out of you, stuck at home with no life or career and putting up with it, because you don't have good self esteem! Good Luck honey, just try to make him respect you if not he will go further if he isn't already.
2006-08-07 05:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, we would need to know how old your man is. If this girl is half his age with him being 20 or even 24, there is a REAL problem there. (yuk) Second of all, if he knows its upsetting you and he still insists on doing it he is not respecting you as a person or as his live in girlfriend. It just sounds really confusing, and if I'm confused I'm sure you are too. Really get him to sit down and talk this out. If he's not willing to do this much maybe you should sit back and evaluate what you want to do with this situation. Much luck. =)
2006-08-07 05:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by unique2477 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll b honest. I have a boyfriend but I still talk 2 guys that flirt with me and sometimes I even flirt back. It's harmless really as long as the other person knows where I stand. Since this is really upsetting u, u should let ur bf know this. Sit down and talk 2 him. Ask him what r his motives with this girl. Y he insists on being flirty with her. Ask him who he'd choose. I now he'll choose u. He loves u. The other girl is just eye candy. Like window shopping. But seriously, talk 2 him, not yell, talk.
2006-08-08 08:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about u just leave him because this doesn't make any sense.. i got a headache from reading this question.. he's not showing u any respect what so ever, so why r u still sticking around.. he's worried about making her feel good, hell he should be worried about ur feelins and ur feelings alone while he's in a relationship w/u..
what he's doing is wrong and u need to get the courage and strength to put ur foot down.. let him know that ur his girl and that if anyone deserves the "u look good and sexy" comments, it's u.. let him know he better knock it off or ur gonna leave him..
i think u should leave him anyway.. he sounds like a childish loser...
2006-08-07 05:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, If you don't know by now then you never will. He obviously has no respect for your wishes and relationship......is there one? It's time to put your foot down or leave. Is he living with you or her. I'll admit that sometimes both sexes have greetings like that, but if you've asked him to stop, then there is something seriously wrong. You might want to ask him if he would prefer to live alone... that might work.
I have male friends I talk to online and some of them are friends I have known longer than my BF. I don't talk to them everyday and if my BF asked me to stop talking to them then I would with some, but one is a client of mine and I wouldn't cause I remind him he needs a haircut online. Good luck
2006-08-07 05:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to respect your feelings on this. I bet if you tried the same thing and tell a guy that he was hot and sexy he would get mad and probably say that you are cheating on him. You all need to do some serious talking about this. If it don't work then Save Some $$$$$$$ and leave.
2006-08-07 05:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't really love you and if he does love you he doesn't love you like He SHOULD! I'd leave him for sure... My husband says i'm the most beautiful girl in the world to him (i'm not the most beautiful anything) but if he ever stopped i'd be extremely worried. He shouldn't be saying that stuff about another girl.
2006-08-07 05:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Freedom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are but Im assuming you're young and he is much older. He clearly isnt faithful in your relationship. You've told him that you're not comfortable with him emailing her and he basically says he doesnt care. Why be with someone who doesn't care? There is something wrong with it. If you want to continue to be used and un-happy stay, otherwise find someone who wants you.
2006-08-07 05:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not really considering your feelings and how this is upsetting you.
It could be a harmless friendship but I doubt it. More likely to be that it's massaging his ego and he likes that.
If you are living together and having a relationship he really needs to think about his priorities. Putting an online friendship ahead of you isn't good.
2006-08-07 05:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dusky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Try to learn proper English grammar instead of making a mere ATTEMPT at being "cool".
2. Why is he your boyfriend if he's causing you so much trouble?
3. Stop repeating yourself.
Thank you for reading.
2006-08-07 05:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋