2006-08-07 05:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously some people aren't really married or having real lives. Look, if you get up at 5 every morning to get ready for the day and come home at 6 pm and then spend time with the kids, get them feed, cleaned and ready for bed and in bed by 9pm. It still takes some bonding time to get spontanious. You would still like to get to sleep by 10:00 so you can get some sleep. Maybe if sex takes 5 minutes you can squeeze it in there but I like it to last. If you have it scheduled you are thinking about it all day and getting revved up for it when you get home.
Anyway the question is actually about how men behave better if they know they are going to get sex no matter what than they do on days where "there might be a chance, I better not mess this up so I am going to be fake in order to have sex."
2006-08-07 05:38:20 · update #1
We have the same problem, no time or desire to have sex, we wanted to shedule it, but it didn't work either. Good for you, that at least that works. Don't worry how he is acting during the day, just be happy if he is nicer.
2006-08-07 05:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by memyselfandi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hahaha
Of course he behaves good on those pre-planned sex times.
That's why I prefer spontanious relations. Takes the pressure off both of us.
After many yrs of marriage you just kindda know what days are good for your schedules anyway.
2006-08-07 12:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by x-factor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCHEDULED nights for sex ?????? What a joke !!! Ever been spontaneous ?? Ever been in a position BESIDES missionary ? I would bet that if you have to schedule it that your marriage is pretty boring just like your sex life, or lack of sex life I should say. People like you make me laugh.
2006-08-07 12:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what marriage does to people, this is why I have no intentions of ever getting married, how sad to actually plan nights to have sex with your spouse.
2006-08-07 12:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm married but we dont have plan nights or days. That's just so boring. How about if you dont want sex that night. your still going to do it but not enjoy it. sex is spontaneous so when your in the mood then go ahead and do it. dont plan it.
2006-08-07 12:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on the schedule if u plan it 4 every night he would act better
2006-08-07 13:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What the....? If I were a man I think I'd be avoiding coming home on most those nights!
2006-08-07 12:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never plan when my husband and I have sex.....talk about taking the fun out of it!
2006-08-07 12:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋