how come sex and love dont nessesarily mix in the male brain?

Answer 1

well mostly because im too occupied with thinking about how all these self righteous woman keep saying **** like this. So you can get all the responses you want to hear because you keep getting into that relationship with this asshole guy who keeps messing with your brain. Dont take it out on the race of males. i am conciously trying to seperate the two because i have learned from my mistakes as a young child.

Everywoman i have falling in love with in the past several years i have avoided the sexual with maybe your just not interesting enough for the males you try to attract try and open your mind become a source of mental fascination and maybe theyll value a freindship instead of sex that is what love truely is just friendship.

Answer 2

In the case of many men, two heads are not necessarily better than one, at least when it comes to thinking. The smaller head, the one located further south often takes over and then thinking usually stops, and that is not a good thing. The little man is just after a warm, dark, moist place to do some stretching and retching, and then he wants to be left alone, and too often, the head with the actual brains in it (this is debatable at times) takes a back seat and lets the little one call all the shots.

Love is funny topic - it's hard to define and hard to make sense of, and men sometimes have a need to make sense of everything in their world. Love is an elusive experience, and it requires effort and imagination and it can be confusing... Add to it the unpredictable nature of women... and men sometimes just flip their brains into auto-pilot and don't put forth the effort necessary to nurture love. In that case, women find, after months of years of investing themselves in a relationship, that they have ended up with virtually the same man that they found upon meeting him - that he hasn't really progressed too much beyond what he was when they met. Some guys feel that once they have hooked the woman (especially by being given access to the bedroom) that no further effort is required...

There are quality men to be found out there, the challenge is being able to see if the one that you have is capable of change and growth and maturity and imagination... If you are able to put together some sort of test that will measure a man in those areas, plus meet any physical and mental characteristics that you have... you have a formula for finding the right guy.

Answer 3

Thats part of the whole male psyche thing.

Actually sometimes it does, in very rare cases. Especially when the guy is slightly sissy or metrosexual. Sex and love is capable of mixing in the brains of such men.

As for the normal, completely straight men, like the saying goes, they think, live, breathe and function with their kukubirds (*****).

Answer 4

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I try not to think about your picture when answering. Realistically, men have the intrent of love. But the desirous genes manipulate the willpower. For me, having sex is much too important for the factor of love being involved. Thus, I believe you are referring to about 70% of the men, according to a study at Duke University. Oh my gosh; that was on 60 Minutes.

Answer 5

Sex and love don't necessarily mix in anyone's brain. Both sexes have sex without love. I have experienced sex without love and then dealt with the man that thought it was love. This is a generalization.

Also, men were not designed to partner with one person. In the "cave man" days they partnered with many women to spread their genes.

Answer 6

Psychologically speaking, men are more turned on by what they see and women are more turned on by what they hear. Men by and large find it easier to relate to physical acts (i.e. sex) than women seem to; they're more often the ones looking for bonds beyond the physical. Love requires a lot more than sex, and unfortunately most men find that hard to relate to. It's not that they don't WANT to commit, it's just often outside their field of experience. What men view as a woman's intense drive to commitment -- the development of love -- comes across as more than they can handle.

Sex and love can be quite distinct, but please don't fault men for needing "extra maintenance" -- it takes time to make a relationship work.

Answer 7

Because when I see a woman in a red dress having an intimate relationship with a wall I think sex, not love.

Answer 8

i would say that you were stereotyping since it is not all male brains in which this occurs.

since the goal in human life is to procreate & the male is the usually the dominatior it would make sense that his ability to procreate by domination overide personal feelings, if man were as moody as woman (now i am sterotyping) no one would ever have sex.

personally i "love to have sex" so in my mind they do mix but, not in the way you may think.

hope this helps,

SS

Answer 9

Because you like Madonna music as most of the girls in this days that means you want to play with them and if they sleep you will break they souls so they rather just have sex with you.
LIKE A VIRGIN

Answer 10

Because sex and love are two very different things.

This is why we don't describe rape as an expression of love, and love as what happens between a man and the prostitute he visits...