my 11 year old sister had sex with her friends brother and got pregnent . and she told me but she is afrad of telling our parents so she wants to run away i told her that all that would do was. hurt her self and the baby , what should i do.
2006-08-07 04:57:43 · 22 answers · asked by Nicole w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dont let her run away!! She is so young, still a child. You have got to tell your parents immediately. They have got to help her. This could be really bad for her if she ran away.
2006-08-07 05:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH HUN!~please tell your parents NOW! Your sister will be mad at you, at first, of course. But her body is too young and not ready for this. She needs immediate medical help! There are many many things that can go wrong at such a young age, including your sisters death. PLEASE tell your parents now so she can get medical help!!! This so important! Running away is the WORST thing she could do! I know she's scared, but she shouldn't have spread her legs, now she has to pay the consequences! Hopefully you learn something from this and don't follow in her footsteps!! If you truelly love your sister you will tell your parents so she can get the help she needs!
2006-08-07 05:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her, get her to see that coming and telling your parents is the right thing because they will be able to help. If that doesn't work then you sit your parents down and explain to them the situation make them see that if they blow up at her they have the chance of loosing her. That is something that they don't want to do. She may hate you at first, but in the long run it will be well worth it.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-07 05:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to tell your parents! She will need lots of help if she really is pregnant. And find a good counseling center. I know LDS Family Services is GREAT about talking to birth mothers and their families, helping young mothers decide about keeping the baby or giving it up for adoption, stuff like that. You can go there if you want, or find somewhere like that.
2006-08-07 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are, but the first thing I would do is take her to family planning or get a HPT to find out for sure. No sense in freaking out mom and dad if you don't have to do, and if she is not pregnant (which I believe we all hope) the scare should be enough to teach her a lesson.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 05:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by slowjenn7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have nothing to do.
I don't believe that a girl 11 years old can got pregnent.
2006-08-07 05:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by gbbhoho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you sound young yourself you misspell pregnant and second of all why did your parent let her do stuff like that she is only a 11 yrs.old and three of all take her to the doctor to get her check ok thats crazy and dumb
2006-08-07 05:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by slimsexydb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the discussion boards at girlmom.com - It's a site especially for young mothers. You can meet girls in all kinds of circumstances who've been through it all - and pick their brains about it. Best of luck to you & your sister.
2006-08-07 05:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. Pregnancy is very complicated in children this young, and her safety could very well be at risk. She needs very good medical care, and your parents need to know. Save your sister and tell your parents.
2006-08-07 05:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by alone1with3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is she doing having sex at 11? Where are your parents? You need to tell them asap! They need to know. This is insane!
2006-08-07 05:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋