He asked this question here http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ar7IaZK4o2vbDm0LM2moU4_sy6IX?qid=20060804124533AAoe0gu
. His fiance answer the question last. Just by her answer she seems kind of crazy. Should he pack it up and go?
2006-08-07 04:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ummm, no comment...
I can't check my yahoo mail from my work. You have to send me a message to my work email...
2006-08-08 04:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are not going to like my answer, but I think you are meddling in something that is not your business.
How can a couple possibly work out their problems, and All couples have them at one time or another, if friends and family are putting their two cents in the way you have here (and I assume it is even more opinionated in person).
Crazy? No, actually I think her response was pretty logical and quite reasonable considering the situation... I don't care What was said between them in the heat of an argument! Taking it public and having 'friends' fanning the flames, publicly and privately, is about the quickest way I could think of to bring a quick end to something that might have developed into a solid relationship without the interference.
If you are a real friend, you should back off and get your nose centered in your own business, where it actually belongs.
Sorry... I have to call it the way I see it.
2006-08-07 22:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her reply was justified, not crazy. I mean, I'd be miffed if my girlfriend dragged our personal life onto Y! Answers. However, from what I gather, it sounds like she did call him a waste of flesh and it was just so off-the-cuff that she didn't even remember it. Unless it was in the heat of a two-sided argument and he had just been careless with her feelings too, there's no reason for him to stick with someone who could be so hurtful in such a flippant way.
2006-08-07 12:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with her answer, although I wonder if she didn't say it, how did she know it was him that wrote it. However, she probably knows his name on here. I agree with her - he needs to talk to her about it, not ask everyone in cyberland. If he feels he is being verbally abused, he's a big boy, he can decide to move on or to go through with the wedding. In the meantime, you should stay out of it.
2006-08-07 12:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of on the fence about this, I understand her being a little put off about him discussing their bizness on here but I also understand his side because me and my husband have done it although we both are getting feedback, maybe she doesn't appreciate it therefore he should take that into consideration.
2006-08-07 12:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Completly in love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends, she's over it, he's not. He doesn't know if he's even supposed to be hurt. So how is she suppose to know. They just need to iron this out and move on. If it's not something that can be ironed out, image when things become real work in a marriage.
2006-08-07 12:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually her answer sounds normal. If that's all I have to go off of I would say you are the crazy one and should mind your own business.
2006-08-07 12:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by someDumbAmerican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not crazy and she is right.
Her response was quite classy and reasonable.
He got busted big time.
Stay out of it, I'm sure That they can handle their own problems without you.
Good lucl
2006-08-07 12:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound that crazy. Sounds like he got busted, but really not your concern. I wouldn't get involved if I were you.
2006-08-07 12:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up and leave this girl she needs help Not you.
2006-08-07 11:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by UTGirl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋