How to develope my personality skill?

Question

I can't express my ideas, even I can't make my ideas clear first. I need to develope my business for my wealth

Answer 1

try to get one first

Answer 2

Believe in yourself! Close your eyes and thing what is that one thing that you are good at, in which you are better than any one else and now decode your own answer in terms as how did you reached to that level? And Viola, you got the key to develop your personality skills! Just get sunk in this feeling that you have it in you and all you need to do is take some professional help and advice in finding out first the short comings and then the way to resolve it. Because when we are in despair we tend to play down our strengths as well, where as in reality you might have just one or two flaw that too minor just work on that and it is more than easy.

And start thinking in bullets, short sentences to have clarity of idea and it will help you express yourself in more effective way. Enjoy!

Answer 3

Practice, Practice, Practise. Talk to somebody everyday. Look for events or opportunities to talk to people in the area you are interested. You must have some idea about what you want but just don't know what to do or how to do it. Do something towards your aims every day. The effects will be cumulative. Tell people where your muddled thinking is. Test ideas with people. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Keep it simple. Be honest & direct. Listen no I mean LISTEN shut up & really understand & take on board what people are saying. Show an interest in what they are saying. (you don't have to agree but you don't have to show that either). Respond positively to what they are saying. Look for role models. Don't waste their time. Search for ways to help them.

Answer 4

You should put a plan in your head focusing on the main ideas of your conversation,or have a notebook with you,their is nothing wrong in that.
Try practicing in front of a mirror,talk loudly and clearly.
I would suggest you to buy some books related to your problem.
as a marketing student i took a sales management course, the book gives many practical advises.

Answer 5

You need to pray to God, Jehovah, because He made you and He can help you get over your blockages. Wait for an answer (or else asking is pointless). You can do research, take quizzes on line, read Books by John maxwell, and once you knwo your weaknesses, practice , practice, practice the behavior you desire. No matter how hard it is, practice with your friends or family first. And understand that to change anything it takes time. At least 21 consecutive days to change a habit.

Answer 6

As I understand you have two challenges at the moment:

(1) You are unable to communicate effectively;
(2) You need to develop your business; or you think your poor communication skills would affect your business growth.

To deal with the first, you need to understand that your beliefs about yourself affect how you behave in the real world. These beliefs have been nurtured over the years, very likely from the childhood and were reinforced when someone (your teacher, parents or friends) told you that you are a poor communicator. This is a negative belief and this can really stop your progress unless you take action right now to change your belief. This might take some time, but be patient and persistent, it can be done.

The way to change a belief is by (1) creating an opposite belief and reinforcing it and (2) eliminating the old belief. The first can be done by repeated affirmations and visualizations. You need to write and say repeatedly to yourself something like this “I am communicating better and better, I feel so good when people appreciate my excellent communication skills”. When you do that visualize and experience this new feeling. Really feel the pleasure and excitement. Let it sink into your psyche. Do this everyday repeatedly, especially on getting up and just before sleep. Whenever your mind entertains the old belief, quickly change your thought to the new positive belief.

The elimination of the old belief can be done in many ways. You can request God (if you believe so), or your own inner self to get rid of this negativity. Do this before sleeping. Another way is to write down your negative beliefs, go over it, really sink in this bad feeling, then write down exactly opposite. Change your feeling. Now quickly go over the previous list and burn it or cut the paper into pieces and throw away. Keep the list of new beliefs with you and keep referring to them frequently.

Yet another, but a powerful way to get rid of negative beliefs is using EFT (emotional freedom techniques). Refer to the site www.emofree.com. All you need to know to apply this excellent method is available free there. You need to make an affirmation like this “even though I am poor in communication skills, I love and accept myself completely” or “even though I am poor in communication skills, I choose to improvise my communication skills drastically” (please use these affirmations only with EFT). You may be able to create better EFT affirmations after visiting the above site.

The above suggestions should take care of your first challenge.

Regarding your business, till the time you improve your communication skills you could employ other people who are good at that. Or if you want to go solo, you could admit your weakness to your prospects and ask for their understanding. Rely on written communications, for which you can enlist the help of your partner or friends or parents. But be positive, think positively and do not ever entertain negative thoughts. Even when you admit to people, instead of saying “I am very poor in expressing myself”, say something like this “I am still working on improving my communication skills, so please tell me if you did not understand something”. Believe in yourself and be certain that you could overcome these challenges. All will fall in place.

Answer 7

if you dont have the skill for your 'business' go into business that you have the skills for or try marketing and advertising courses at local college or uni...personality is something completely different..for your personality you need to have something to do and talk about be friendly and outgoing take an interest in people.

Answer 8

You can develop your personality skills by taking a communication class at the local college.
-Also, try to use humor in your conversations and try to find something in common with the people you speak with. For example, if someone is wearing a Dodgers baseball cap I would start talking about the team.
-Listen to people when they are talking to you and try to find their interests. People like to talk about themselves.

Answer 9

Give Yourself the Gift of Time
By: Jeanette Cates

Answer 10

Write down your ideas, even if they sound silly or you don't have all the answers. Go to Business link, talk you ideas over will friends, Brainstorm!

Answer 11

See, personality is the one which orginates in mind. So keep your mind always potential and fresh. Make uar physical appearance more attractive, but formal. Talk in a manner which will enhance curiosity among listeners...even they are friends, parents or colleagues....ok??