i had a big fight with my step dad and i want to know should i go talk to him or just give him space??
2006-08-07 04:03:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesn't respect my privacy, he is always trying to look for any little thing just to try to start something with me. he says what ever he feels like saying to anyone, he doesn't care if it hurts. i don't do anything to him, he told me and my sister that he doesn't like us, but when people r around, he acts different.
2006-08-07 04:13:58 · update #1
Need more info on the fight. You know him better than anyone. Do you think he needs space to think about what was said between the two of you? Or do you feel you should continue the conversation?
Communication is always good. If you feel you can have a civil conversation without fighting about it anymore than yes talk to him. If you think your conversation will turn to a fight wait it out a couple days and go back and try again.
Never hurts to try.
2006-08-07 04:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by catboxhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not get along with my step mom at all. If there are going to be any apologies let your step dad do the apologies first. Then you can let him have as much space and time to think it over.
2006-08-07 04:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriella K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like space. Give him a bit then ask him to sit down with you and have a conversation about the matter.
2006-08-07 04:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need space. You both need to cool down and then talk to each other. Apologies may be in order for both sides.
2006-08-07 04:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd like to talk about or if he needs some time to think. It's respectful and shows him that you would like to work things out like an adult.
Good luck
2006-08-07 04:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to calm down take a breather and have some space.When everything is calm maybe you can go have a talk with him
2006-08-07 04:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to calm down and then go talk to him and apologies :)
2006-08-07 04:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him after he calms down, make apologies and tell him how do you feel, maybe he will understand your feeling, but you must talk.
2006-08-07 04:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by glooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give time for the both of you to cool down, then try to talk again.
2006-08-07 04:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by motherofbjz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space my stepdad was like that over the years he changed i realy mis him he pased away february21
2006-08-07 05:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋