Ok, i know this is quite a wierd question but a girl needs to know...
Where is the 'wall' before it is broken?
I mean, i have heard there is some kind of wall a guy has to brake before you receive pleasure....where is this so called 'wall'?
If there is 'a wall' then why is it that periods come with out the wall braking?
Why does it hurt some women when the wall is begining to brake?
2006-08-07 03:59:24 · 21 answers · asked by daniel4joyce 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am not planning to have sex by the way... i plan to have sex When im married.... i was just curious....
2006-08-07 04:31:19 · update #1
It's called the hymen - it's a bit of skin inside you, that will get broken when you have sex. This is what makes you bleed.
However, a huge number of girls already have a broken hymen before they have sex - horse riding can apparently cause it to break, as can using tampons.
2006-08-08 18:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. IMO, he need not do anything that would brake your hymen for you to recieve pleasure.
If he knows his stuff. ANd if you know your anatomy.
You are thinking 'old-fashioned, male-benefitting' in terms of sex. For a lot of women, vaginal sex may not be pleasurable at all. Or, hardly not as much as other *ehem* exterior stimulation- clitoral. So, become more familiar with your own anatomy before trying anything. Learn what REALLY is good for you, not just the 'guys way' of pleasure.
But yes, most women have hymens, some do not, and all are different. Some get broken other ways (sports) and some have to be surgically opened. It doesn't close off completely so your body can still discharge fluids from it without trouble. Many women complain that it hurts fiercely for the first (few) time.
My idea is that if you are going to do this before marriage, amke sure it is someone who truly cares enough to be sensitive to your needs and comfort, all of the time.
And even better- you plan to wait! Wonderful. You have enough time, as do I, to learn lol! The net is a wonderful resource. Here is one of my favorite websites, tailored to WOMENS interests and education.
Careful, its graphic (not bad though) so make sure noone else is around if you open this link.
The whole site is good. Browse around...
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hymen.htm
2006-08-07 04:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello its called a hymen. i wouldnt say it was a wall. wall is too solid a name for it. The hymen is near the entrance and when you have sex it breaks to allow the penis to go in. Some girls break their hymen through exercise or foreplay. For example, mine was already broke before i had sex a couple of years ago. but it doesnt mean i lost my virginity to nothing. the first time you have sex you will lose your virginity.
It hurts some girls because its a thin piece of skin near your entrance to the vagina but its not totally covering it. therefore you can have periods. its half covering it.
Thats why when you have sex the entrance is wider and more noticable, than probably now.
please dont rush into having sex though and there is nothing to worry about when you do have sex. it might be a little uncomfortable, depending how relaxed you are!
hope this helps, quite a difficult question to answer! :)
2006-08-07 05:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are two different parts the wall you are referring to when having sex for the first time is called the hymen, this is a piece of skin that goes across just inside you, when you have sex this will break causing usually a little discomfort and some bleeding, the other wall you are talking about is the lining of your womb which comes away when you have your period this is the eggs and that breaking up.
2006-08-08 01:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by hanspam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This wall is known as a *hymen* and generally breaks the first time you have sex - this can be a bit uncomfortable, with a bit of bleeding, but it wont kill you !!
If you use Tampax, this can also break your hymen, and apparently if you have really heavy periods too.
Look up "hymen" on a search engine, and all your questions will be answered (just stay away from the X rated sites !)
2006-08-07 04:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and i think this whole "wall" thing is just a figure of speech you've over heard. Like some girl saying "I've set the wall's high so to impress me he's gonna have to do summin amazing to break the wall"
That's what i think it is n e way ! correct me if i'm wrong.
2006-08-07 04:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hymen quite often breaks before the first sexual encounter as it is only a thin membrane. Usually it happens due to sports.
The myth of painful first sex was perpetrated by the prudish Victorians to keep their daughters in line. They would be expecting pain so quite often got it - but it was all in the mind.
brakes are what you stop a car with btw!
2006-08-13 06:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called a hymen a piece of skin in the neck of the womb
Other than ask your parents or get some sex education
2006-08-13 12:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just another reason why you should wait till you are married before making love. If someone loves you he will be patient. It took seven tries for mine to break and it hurt like crazy ( and during the final episode I was drunk). I have heard of some women not having any problems at all. My mom said it took 6 months for my Dad to break on through to the other side. Please don't be a fool like so many of us who have been.
2006-08-07 04:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Grianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a wall its a hymen, its like a piece of skin. You can break your hymen before you even have sex through exercise, tampons etc. It doesn't cover the entire vaginal opening, it just circles it. Look it up on wikipedia, they have diagrams and such.
2006-08-07 04:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by nonameforme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋