I mean i wanna know if she feels like were fighting.I am NOT willing to loose her like that. WHAT SHOULD I DO??She isn't reply to my emails even though she is probably there.
2006-08-07 03:58:56 · 21 answers · asked by rsd_gal101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok. I am not email her all the time, and she isnt answering the phone. She was going to come to my house, but i couldnt contact her because she said she might be busy that day.
2006-08-07 04:10:48 · update #1
I try to contact her and say are you mad at me but she might be ignoring me.
Oh yeah, thanks to every1 who answers!
2006-08-07 04:12:53 · update #2
Ok. i told her my oppnion on something and she felt like i was mad at her when she seemed mad. I felt like crying, she was being SO MAD 'BOUT NOTHIN!!!!!!!!!! She wont contact me:( She lives in Roswell and I live in Alpharetta so i cant go to her that often. well tomarrow we are going to our open house for school. I might see her.
2006-08-07 15:42:11 · update #3
If you guys are TRUE friends then it will work out. Try a different mode of communication other then e-mails. The phone works wonders.
2006-08-07 04:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship grows when it is reciprocal, but if reciprocal becomes the prime expectation, it gets reduced in value. It becomes a mutual benefit scheme between 'friends'.
However, in true friendship, even if one does not reciprocate, still the friendship sustains, one sided though. Because the basis of the friendship is unconditional acceptance of a friend on 'as he/she is basis' ! May be the non-reciprocation of the other causes a little bit of anxiety , as in your case, but the problem belongs to the non-understanding partner !
2006-08-07 04:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to her house and talk in person, face to face. Tell her how much you value her as a friend, and ask if there is anything that she wants to talk about. Email is too impersonal. If she's really your friend, she'll talk to you. So go over there, and good luck!
2006-08-07 04:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off and let her sulk a while. At this point she's playing on your guilt and trying to make you feel bad...and is succeeding. She will get in touch when she sees it's not working any longer. You're smart for giving her another chance.
2006-08-07 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your butt of the chair and go see her in person and discuss it face to face like 2 mature individuals!
2006-08-07 04:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not replying doesnot means that she is feeling fighting and anger,let try to find is she got any problem and need your help. write your letter and describe how u are missing her. may be you will get feeling of love in return of expecting fight.good luck.
2006-08-07 04:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by nawab allam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing going on here my best/f isnt repiling to my emails and i am worried it is ethier she is grounded or she is mad at me so i need the answers to
2006-08-07 04:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by keke p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give your bestfriend time to cool off. Everybody needs that space and time to be alone
2006-08-07 04:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
often friends have differance of opinions so just try and find out what is going on and if she /he really is your friend it will work itself out but don't push it to hard you might have to have she/he come to you
2006-08-07 04:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her face to face or call her on the phone and ask her straight up "r u mad at me? if so, we need to talk"
2006-08-07 04:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by bohogoddess66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋