i wasent ready to leave my ex but he dumped me but know he is back and me and my bf are having a rouph time but i love bouth of them so what should i do
2006-08-07 03:45:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sounds like you have issues with being single..
you cannot really love them both.. so ask yourself do you love either? or are you just so needy of a man in your life?
perhaps you need time to yourself...
2006-08-07 03:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first why did your ex dump you. And how do you know he isn't going to do it again. It seems like he is decisive and doesn't really know what he wants. It could be that he thought that he had a change with something better and when that didn't pan out, he came running back you. You don't need a guy like that in your life. And for your current bf, what is that is making it rough?
Do your really love them? YOU need to look at why you love them and what makes them good for you. Some times I think we get in a relationship and feel almost safe or content in it and don't see the flaws. You need to look at who is best for you that loves you for you. And won't leave you in a few months because the are board or because they have found something interesting to keep their attention.
Sometimes being alone is the best way to discover who we really are! And that's what you might need to do. How can you love and know someone, when you don't even know your self?
2006-08-07 11:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by mersades4vr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have moved on wit your life from you ex boyfriend because he dumped u so maybe he has moved on wit his life. you said you and your boyfriend now is having a rough time well its time for you to break up wit him because its a waste of time trying to make something work and its not improving u need to figure out why do you love them i think you dont really love both of them you probably just want somebody in your life Sometimes being alone is the best way to discover who we really are! And that's what you might need to do. How can you love and know someone, when you don't even know your self?love your self first dont us it indeed when the time is right love will find you and thats real
2006-08-07 11:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by gurly_girl16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to know about love because you cannot love 2 of them at the same time...it is either one or the other make up your mind. Just stop trying to grow up so fast and live your life and stop worrying about these young boys.
2006-08-07 11:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from both of them...one is your ex and the other you are having a rough time with. Come on...there are plenty of fish in the sea...move on...cuz the right guy is out there looking for you.
2006-08-07 10:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant spell so u must be young and ur prolly to young to even be thinking about having a boyfreind.....and the first one prolly just dumped u so he could go screw sum girl and now he thinks he can get sum off u stick with ur curent bf.
2006-08-07 11:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by demons live under ur bed! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick with your heart. also why did your ex dump you b4 did things change since then that will make it so you wont have a repeat of the same problem.
2006-08-07 10:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your ex dumped you then dont give him the time of day!
2006-08-07 12:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to FU(K off , when u needed him and u didn't want him to leave u alone he didn't care n left u maybe for some one else now he came know that OOOOOOOK i can not find any better than her then again he came to u just kick him outta ur mind
2006-08-07 10:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart who u love n want to spend ur life wit mayb its easier if u leave both behind
2006-08-07 10:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋