You people have pissed me off to the point that i dont care about my life anymore. I dont care if i fail during my life time. I could have a good future, but since nothing is going right for me, i dont really give a rats *** about my future right now. All i want is friends that care about me and others, but i am not able to get any. So now i have a choice to make, and i am thinking that itr is going to be a bad one
2006-08-07 03:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not care about people who do not care for themselves.
Do not let them affect the passion that you once had for life, and leave the dreams that you have yet to fulfil. No one is self sufficient, and it is painful to know that your friends are not helping, but looking at the positive side of life, it is the time where you take control of yourself, and develop an unknown courage and strengh to work harder, and prove to the people that had forsaken you that you could succeed and move on without them.
Life has its tough moments, and when the grey clouds move away, you could see the silver lining. Just believe that everything happens for a purpose and for the better of you, and keep a positive attitude, and you will be fine.
Tomorrow would always be a better day... Stay cool and calm and it would really help if you stop exclaiming that everything's gonna be bad!
Take care, and may you see the rainbow soon! =)
2006-08-07 04:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you to a point, but you should never let others dictate your happiness - only YOU are in charge of your happiness. Most days it's a constant effort to stay positive, but I have found that it's possible. One of the easiest ways to do it is to stop thinking about how other people aren't making you happy, and to start thinking about how YOU can make others happy. Once you stop concentrating on yourself, and start concentrating on others, it's amazing how fast your problems disappear (in context). Volunteer your time to help others any way you can or would enjoy. When you make others happy, your own happiness is sure to follow.
2006-08-07 03:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's silly! I care about you! And I'm sure you have a lot of great qualities, but you're just drowning them in your negativity. Don't do anything bad to yourslef you'll just end up feeling more miserable... or well, dead. And no one wants that! Just think about how selfish you'd have to be to kill yourself. Maybe you could try joining a sport or a club or playing violent video games!
Good luck
2006-08-07 03:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by tdamroze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't give up yet you still have a lot of life to live. God created you for a special purpose and you haven't finished it yet. Someone out there needs you, what about them? If you don't care about yourself then at least live for them. Not to be preachy but maybe find a local church it helped me through my time of need.
2006-08-07 04:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by bec7bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this. forget all those people. just be yourself and you'll get friends. it just takes patience. as for that choice, think about it long and hard and stay calm. keep your emotions as far as possible when you think about it. just give it time and try to stay calm. it will all work out.
2006-08-07 03:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by mr. answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let friends determine where ur height will be in life.true it is good to have friends but they shd dont play such a determining factor in ur life.friends wil or may not let u down but u ve to standup to somtin too.i wud want a friend who knows wat he wants out of life rather than tat depends on me for my existence
2006-08-07 03:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seem bitter about something..What are the details?
2006-08-07 03:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋