2006-08-07 03:37:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YEAH THAT'S STUPID
2006-08-07 03:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not stupid but if you really want to get some excitement in the relationship, have you considered not just watching the fun but joining in also. If you husband does not have a problem with you watching, then just think how he would like it for you to have some fun also.
2006-08-07 12:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your idea or his? I do not think you are stupid, just misguided. There are many other ways to keep excitement in a relationship that do not include people who were not a participant in your wedding vows. Many people are open to this these days, but all I have seen happen from it is heartbreak. Why don't you start with dressing up as someone else and letting him have you. Change your hair, voice, everything and don't let him call you by any other name than that of your new persona. Get him to tell her his fantasies and then try them out!!!
2006-08-07 10:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to deal with the questions that might arise in your own mind? Was she better than me? Did he like her more than me? Does she have a better body than me? What if he'd rather spend more time with her than you? What if he starts talking about how good she was?
Personally I'd want to slaughter the other woman. It's too risky for your relationship. Find some other way to get excitement. Talk to each other. A marriage can't last on sex alone.
2006-08-07 10:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Quicksilver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are other ways to spice it up in the bedroom it you do this then your relationship will never be the same. you might not see it now but wait after you go through with it. The out come wont be good. He will want more and more of someone else and you might start to want to try it to or worse he will start going off behind your back
think about this thing long and hard before you decide
2006-08-07 10:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by kjbart3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you not Stupid. Because you are smart, why? because you married to your husband only and to be with person forever. But your husband is very very STUPID, for tellilng you wanted you to watch your husband to f**k someone else to keep this relationsphip better????
Seems, that He didn't sit down and talk to you about how to make this excitement in the relationship with you. Than thinking only himself with stupid idea.
I always talked to my wife about how to make it better. We do make things best, and that what marriage is about. I can't believe he really want to do this. You need to tell him, answer is "NO!" Reason why? We got married just two of us, meaning there will be no one to get involve our sex life!...... If you really, really want to do this?? then let end this marriage. If he said, "OK, how to make this better" Tell him you need to stop thinking for yourself and think about me and you both of us need to work it out. If not then I don't see the point for me to keep on going.
I never ever think about doing that with my wife. Never, I married her because I truly loved her so much that I want her all myself no one to have her. She felt the same way. Smiling, Tell him how you feel and If he can't respect you then you at all then end it. He should known before he got married.
You are smart, pretty, great personitlty, outgoing, funny, serious, and anythings you are. There other guy looking for someone like you... I do wish you luck. Remember you not stupid at all, he is stupid thinking about all himself... smiling, your true Male friend do have respect for you. smiling.
2006-08-07 10:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things I would do to keep excitement in the relationship but that isn't one of them. But if that turns you on then i don't see a problem with it. If you are going to do it just to make him happy it may cause problems down the road.
2006-08-07 10:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All humans are different and tick in different ways. Don't worry about what the rest of the world thinks or says or does. It is your life and your husbands. Do that which is agreeable to the both of you as you live with each other and not the rest of the world.
2006-08-07 11:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because the excitement doesn't include you...the pattern that will form is in order to become more excited the more affairs he must have....this would be a no win solution for a married couple.
2006-08-07 10:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is yes...if, and only if, he could honestly and sincerely return the favor. Tell him you want to watch him with someone and get his reaction. If he says okay then tell him that after he gets his with the "other" person you want him to watch you with someone else. If he reacts badly to that suggestion then the answer is NO.
2006-08-08 12:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by sapphiresunstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about it in the bedroom is okay. But just leave it as a fantasy it will destroy your relationship if you actually go through with it. Talk about it but don't ever do it.
2006-08-07 10:45:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋