n we argue all the time. she says im a asshole n all that n she's like, "why are u like this? u need to get ur act together" n im like, "dont ****** tell me wat to do, *****." n she's like, "u are such an evil person, ur just jealous becuz ur brother has a life n u dont. i dont want u to be at our wedding." n i was like, "fine, i dont wanna ****** go to ur lameass wedding, i dont wanna see that jackass marry a ***** like u!" wat a whore! i hate her so much she's sucha greasy snot ball!!! wat the hell duz my brother see in this stupid crap wad?
2006-08-07 03:27:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I take it that you and your bro dont get along for some reason. why would she tell you that you need to get your life together? do you need to and not want to admit it? just wondering if she is just saying it out of rage. If i were you i wouldn't go near her again b/c she does sound like a snob. Your bro probably thinks that he is in love with her just b/c he wants to feel "special" and have that feeling I wouldn't give the marriage to long b/c if she is arguing with u all the time she will definatly start naggin him about things.
2006-08-07 03:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by kjo_4711 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
appears like your brother is searching for your interest, and also you've were given been ignoring him. i'm certain he seems as a lot as you, or, perhaps used to. besides, why no longer be tremendous to him? teach him that you're the in contact about him, and as a family participants member, that you want him. perhaps he will replace. If he would not, then a minimum of you tried. yet, siblings should be closer than acquaintances. quicker or later, you'd be previous, and in case your brother and also you aren't any further close, it truly is going to be painful to have in easy words undesirable thoughts of your brother.
2016-11-23 14:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by rinaldo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and guess what I have so learned from it. I have little to no contact with my brother who is my child's god son and whom stood up for me at my wedding. You can either be the bigger person and swallow your pride and make peace with her and accept the fact your brother loves her and wants to spend his life with her or be stuck in a miserable life like me where you regret what happened and have little or no contact with your brother. I have extended the olive branch to my sister in law many times but she will not move past it. All holidays with family are stressed and uncomfortable and the worse part is I have a nephew who does not know me and whom I see two times a year at the most. Family should do everything to keep the peace. If it is not meant to be it will not last. Better to be close to help your brother if it falls apart then to be the reason for blame later.
2006-08-07 03:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toxic & polluted. That's the only thing I can think of reading your stuff, and then I go to your profile and there's more of the same. Do you have any friendly feelings towards anybody? Ever? I seriously would recommend you do some counseling. You've made it your life's mission to be hateful & miserable, what are you getting out of playing the victim in all your scenarios? Good luck, hope you'll start your work soon... it'd be a waste of a good life otherwise....
2006-08-07 03:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Helga J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Um, have you ever tried to have a real conversation where no one throws profanities and name-calling at each other? Is there a real problem, like an incident that upset one of you that caused all this? Normally, for a person to have that much hatred and anger it's because of SOMETHING. It's normal for 2 people to simply not mesh perfectly, but you should be able to be civil and polite. Especially for your brother's sake. Did you ever think about how this is making him feel? You and her both need to sit down and have a chat and try to be mature for once. Good luck...
2006-08-07 03:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...love is blind. Besides, your brother's the one who'll have to share his life with her, not you. So why worry? She doesn't seem to be a pleasant person and you really don't have to try too hard to prove this point to your brother. Leave them alone. Perhaps there's some justification in her saying 'Get your act together.' Don't brush people's remarks aside, sometimes they could be useful advice.
Anyway, I think you should turn up for your brother's wedding. Just treat it like you are merely there for your brother's sake, that's all.
2006-08-07 03:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesnt matter that you hate her its not your life its your brothers and if you dont like her you dont have to nobody will make you but you should for your brothers sake get along with her the best you can and dont miss the wedding its your brother that will miss you there and besides if you go it will tick her off kill her with kindness and one day she'll quit being a *****
2006-08-07 03:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to sit down and figure out a way to stop talking to each other like that. Ask her what she doesn't like about you and tell her what you don't like about her. You need to find some common ground. Your brother, you both want him to be happy so why don't ya'll act like you like each other around him? That could start to change things. You two may end up enjoying each other's company. You never know until you try it.
2006-08-07 03:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she can be mean evil woman. But just be there for your brother... why that even made her pissed off more. Don't give up on your brother because of her... If she tells you what to do just tell her yeah whatever. that made her more mad because you not getting pissed off. long you don't get pissed off even made her worst pissed off. Just go to the wedding, if your brother have something to say listen what he have to say. Believe me, He will be so damn glad to have a bro. like you around him. don't let her get between you and your bro.
If your bro said not to see you or be around anymore. Don't get mad just send him a card make sure you made copy, reason why if she found your letter she will throw it away. make alot of proof when ever you send, call, etc. becasue, that way your bro will know you have been trying to keep in touch with him and she won't let you.
I love my sister in law alot but I don't love my brother in law at all! So, I will always be around her even I hate him the most dumb A## person. If she happy I am happy if she not happy then I will have something to say if she let me. I will go to her wedding because she wanted us there I am doing this for my sister in law not my Brother in law!!!
Just be there for your bro. if you really care about him and don't let her eat you alive why? if you keep seeing him and waht ever she said to you just say ohh ok sure yeah uh huh! ok.. then talk to your bro. Believe me you winning this there and she losing becasue she can't get you pissed off to get you not be around your bro. smiling.
Believe me, it will work and if it did my 10 points is priceless. hang in there buddy.
2006-08-07 03:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother how you feel about her. If you two are really close, maybe he will think twice about marrying her. Or he will make time for the both of you
2006-08-07 03:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by MARISSA RAMIREZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋