my husband never gives me importance.he hardly wants to talk to me.everything regarding me is forgotten.its everytime about him.is it natural?says he loves his mother the most.he loves my daughter too...not me(i think)
2006-08-07 03:26:37 · 16 answers · asked by bashooli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no im sorry honey...but its not...hes selfish...he doesnt care about ur feelings
god help u!!!!
2006-08-07 03:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by yasmeen q* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, that's very sad. Does he SAY that he loves them more, or is it his actions? If he says that, he's an idiot, and I can't believe you could be married to someone like that. If you just feel that way because of his actions, maybe he's trying to tell you something. Are you being the wife he wants? I think alot of times as wives we complain about our spouses when really it's us pushing them away and being nags. I try every day to do something nice for my husband, even if its a little thing. And every day I kiss him & tell him I love him. And you know what? In turn, he does nice things for me! Like a few wks ago I received perfume and roses for no reason. :)
2006-08-07 10:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves his mother more than you and he is letting you know that then you have MAJOR issues with him. That needs to be dealt with as soon as possible. You should be number one above all of them, his mom, your daughter, etc.. I know that this sounds bad but who is going to be there when his mom passes away? YOU. Who is going to help him raise your daughter? YOU. You need to go to some counseling, and get professional help for the both of you right away. If he is not willing to see all of this or try to get counseling then you need to consider getting a divorceor seperate so that he can see that you really are important.
2006-08-07 10:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it seems as if your husband is a little self considered. Your part of his family and should be the next important thing after his mother. You need to have a talk with him and just explain to him how you feelin.
2006-08-07 10:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, I remember having that plm. Working so hard and not thinking about my wife. I remember she told me that you are married to work and you haven't kiss me, touch me, made love to me, or how was my day was. She said she moving with Parents and I asked what I going to do? She said "You have a choice to live with me or divorce and married to your work." Whoa, so I think very hard and quickly and Told her I want to be with her. So she had me thinking and It sure was worth it for me to make that.
Reason? Married for 9 years, 2 small children and 3rd child due in march. We (Family) have so much fun. I really enjoy them everyday. I tell my wife and Kids I love them everyday and Kiss them every day to tell them and letting them know how imporant they are to me.
I never Love my mom, and my sister, Never have. I love my own family, and my dad side of family. I married to her because I want to share, and even spend my life with her and kids. too.
Tell him how you feel, If he see or don't care anymore, I think you should end it and move on make sure your daughter is your full custody. Reason you won't lose her, I think or maybe your husband will see that. IF he said don't care if divorce that when you know he has a cold stone heart.
P.S. I never forgotten from the day we met and day we got married and day we have kids and nothing forgotten.
2006-08-07 11:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for six and a half years. I think all men have problems showing their love to their spouse.. I have been through this before and it does hurt to think he does not love you the way you love him. but I had to just accept that is the way he is and feel confident that if he did nto love me then he would not be with me..
2006-08-07 10:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Machelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time... but that doesn't mean that's the way it should be.
I would think a good councilor could help you.
2006-08-07 10:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his primary duty to look after your feelings and attend to your needs. You too should be accommodating, as he has many commitments.
2006-08-07 10:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by nkmy83@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope its not normal, the husband should love the wife more or equaly to there mothers..
2006-08-07 10:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly yes it is all too normal for a man to be a self-centered pig.
2006-08-07 10:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd divorce his ***! When you get married, it should be about you! Not your evil mother in law!
2006-08-07 10:31:37 · answer #11 · answered by marieandlucaspape 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋