An alcoholic or a cheater if both knew it and both were being pro-active in changing their behaviors, ie. counseling and such..
These are your only two choices so don't say, neither.
2006-08-07 03:25:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No no regrets this is just a question and it has nothing to do with me.. I have had both kinds of men and didn't stay with either.
There are women who do stand by their men though. And the men did change and they have been together for 20-30 years.. Maybe these are the ones I want to hear from
2006-08-07 03:36:26 · update #1
I would choose an alchoholic. I think its easier to keep booze away than other men haha. I think that promiscuous people have more dangers at hand than alchoholics do. Either way, support and love are necessary for either relationship to be worked through.
2006-08-07 03:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jonny Doom™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to choose between those two? The cheater will never gain your trust and could bring home a STD that could kill you. The boozer will only bring you down with him and ruin your life. He could be abusive and kill you. If the boozer is in recovery and doing the 12 step thing correctly, you may have a chance of a normal life.
2006-08-07 10:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had to choose i would say an alcoholic because we could probly work on that situation much better than dealing with another women and trust issues and then you might have to deal with other children and diseases that's just to much. And it is all about standing by your man and that is something i believe in and it goes both ways
2006-08-07 10:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they are both very similar really secretive etc I wouldn't wish to be in that situation but if I had too I would pick the cheater cos I know cheaters can change from personal experience but I don't know about the alcoholic?
2006-08-07 10:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.. there i said it.. what u gonna do.. first of all these r not choices.. these sound like regrets that'll u'll have if they don't shape up.. u need to find someone who wants u for u and someone sober-so they'll remember what happend the next day..
why date someone w/all these problems.. ur gonna wound up taking on their problems as if ur there mother tryna guide them and things and u shouldn't.. it's gonna give u a headache...
i say move on..
2006-08-07 10:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the alcoholic if he drinks you can tell but if the cheater cheats you might never know only thing is you might to think of swimming in a bigger pool looks likes that ones been fished clean
2006-08-07 10:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM A RECOVERING ALCOHOLIC,NOT A CHEATER PER SAY,BUT YES I CHEATED PEOPLE OUT OF A GOOD LIFE.CHOOSE EATHER.YOU WILL LIVE IN HELL EATHER WAY.BUT YOU DONT HAVE TO CHOOSE THAT WAY(DONT)>DAVE
2006-08-07 14:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from both - if they had really wanted to change, they would have done it by now!
2006-08-07 11:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by bagsprosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcoholic,he is doing in the effect of alcohol.happy friendship day.
2006-08-07 10:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by harshal k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alchoholic because a cheater might bring home crabs
2006-08-07 10:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋