some body help me that's so baneful,would you?

Question

after 8 years together,alot of promises and love words,he was abroad 8 months ago,he back now,i called him at home,a gorgen woman answered and told me she's his wife.he tol;d me before that he might marry there to have the nationality.but all this 8 months,if he called and if i called he don't say any thing about that and kesp telling me a nice words.and today just 1 hour ago i dicvered that and i was chocked.i called him just now and he saied he will talk with me when we meet and he asked me if i love him,and saied he loves me so much.i'm crying now and i can't see the words im writting now from tears.every body told me that he don't deserve me all say that i'm bretty while he is not,all say that i'm a honest good person while he is not.why he lies?why he hurt me?what should i do i feel scared and empty.oh im so scared and depressed.oh god pleas hekp me.peas.some body help me pleas.i wish i would die,om idiot im stubid.right?some body tell me what kind of people am i?tell me what 2 do

Answer 1

First of all stop crying.Dont have self pity.You have not done anything wrong.Infact you were just too innocent to fall for the promises and love.Dont be scared and depressed.heavens is not going to fall down.His was a act of treachery.So why you should suffer for no fault of yours.Just relax.Go out to your freinds house and unwind.Everything will sound silly about what you said.You were too naive to listen to all his lies and think you never suspected him of two timing you.That must have come as a big blow.Its ok sometimes we do make mistakes.You can easily come over this emotional issue.I know how you feel.Juts cry yourself hoarse.It would relieve you to some extent.He wants the best of both worlds so he lied.Since you trusted him too much it hurts you.Nothing is lost.You have everything to gain.Its a great learning experience for you.By overcoming this incident you can definitely win over any situation.Forget what all he said.Its past.The present situation is that you must get over the emotional past.I know its easy to preach.But you can do it.The very fact that you have put the question shows that you also want to get over with it.Just give sometime for the wound to heal.Go to some friends place for a change. Dont be alone.keep your mind busy always.This will help you in not thinking about the past.Stay positive.Nothing is lost.You are not going to gain anything by crying.Pull up your socks.This is not the end of the world.he will definitely rue for his act.He has lost an angel.You were just stupid to fall for his words but then you were in love with him and all advise would have fallen on deaf years. So no self pity please.Go to some place where you think you can unwind and burry the past.remember your not at fault.So dont have the guilty feeling.Come back with vengeance in the sense keep your self busy.Mentally and physically.You are such a sweet lady.he doesnt deserve you at all.take it in your stride.Woman can withstand crisis for they are very patient and mentally strong.Cheer up lady.You can win over this situation.Pray for your mental strength.Have faith.I see great future for you.Good luck.

Answer 2

well,1st of all stop crying and self pitying yourself and accept the fact that he is married,which means he doesn't love you anymore and you would end up messing your life if you go to meet him and give him a chance to manipulate you any further!!

look,its true that this fact is very painful forr you right now but after all its the fact,no one can deny it....the best thing for you right now is to collect yourself and think wise,who are you sobbing for?is he worth your love and tears?whom are you wasting your love,life and tears for?

do you think you want to spend rest fo your life crying about this whole issue and that too for someone who is a liar and the most dishonest person right now in your world....don't u think you are worth someone true and honest who will love and respect you the way you do?think about it,please do not waste your life on this guy,as it is u have lost 8 years of your life,be strong and get him out of your way and get involved in work and join some good sport they'll keep u busy and build Ur self confidence,don't loose Ur dignity and respect by crying for someone so unworthy and show how weak Ur?get up and fight back by being strong and finding someone worth!!

Answer 3

Do you might have any tattoos? NOT LEGAL YET If so, in which and what of?---- Do you might have any scars?YES From what and in which?MY CEILING CAVED IN N SLICED MY LEG (BR00TAL NO?) Do you might have any bruises or cure cuts at any place to your frame at this second? NOPE Do you determine? NOPE Are you skinny, athletic, curvy or ordinary? AVERAGE Do you prefer your frame? NOPE What's your favourite facet of your frame? MY ELBOWS What facet of your frame could you difference? MY NOSE

Answer 4

If I understood you correctly, this guy you really like doesn't want to be with you. Move on sister. There's way more men out there.