I mean he says he tells me the truth but i dont think so. I think he tells me what i want to here just to get in my panties. Is that true? Are all guys like that, all they use a girl for is to get her pussy?
2006-08-07 02:34:59 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all...love is not about sex ...if u r not ready or don't feel like doing it...then don't do it..and if he leaves you because of that...then you know he only wants to get into your panties...not all guys just want to f*** a girl...do you know why the other word for sex is make love?It's because when you are really in love...making love is one of the ways to express it...so don't rush into it if you don't want to...nobody can force you!
2006-08-13 22:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shining StaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell him no.
I say this for a reason, a if you have sex the possibility of pregnancy is a real concern, are you old enough to be a parent? If you are in middle school or high school, keep your focus on your studies finish college and wait for sex until you've found a nice boy and are marriaged.
He does just want in your pants, likely as a trophy. I am an old man and have a young daughter, as parents we tell her the same thing. Discuss these things openly with your mom or guardian.
Many young girls and boys regret sex early because of the prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy and the associated fallout of these.
Don't do it
2006-08-07 03:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well baby..... seems u r quite mature to have boyfriends... and sure u do have ur inner self guiding u in some ways...Girls physically getting close with a guy, most of the time gives the guy a feeling that she is kewl and some point he wanna touch / cajole her though not all guys most feel the same... The only way u can sure that he is not after ur panty is the way he behaves with u
2006-08-07 03:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,not all guys are the same,some grow-up and mature and actually become
MEN. I have an exceptional man, we have been together for ten years and we are engaged too be married soon. You will find amature man,please don't give up..i f you do not trust your boyfriend,you'll have definitely got a communication problem. You said you think he is giving you a line of bulland teling you what you want to hear so he can get to 3rd base,thats a boy.He is a
looser, get rid of him before he hurts you( boys willgo to another girl who gives out so..they are sexually satisfied,but ,they will stay with you( your the kind of girl the would love to marry, and bring home to his parents in the future )ntil you will give him what he wants.He is an user,please don't let himplat these boy games with you, be mature and confront him about what he does when you aren't around,try and catch him,,,,,I wish you luck..
you will find a man who wants you as your are, and do not change for any man ,only yourself..remember that always.........
2006-08-14 18:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys are after sex. Some are into more of a relatioship and want to wait. There is no real way to tell if he is lieing or not. You will just have to see but if it starts getting out of hand. Make sure you dont start to feel unconfortable and if you do tell him to stop and tell him you want to wait and if he does not respect your choice then it not meant to be.
2006-08-14 12:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know if that's all he wants then tell him no and see what he does. If he really likes/loves you he will not keep after you. Tell him you've changed your mind and you don't want to do it anymore.
If he says what's the big deal you've done it already just let him know that it's your body and you decide what happens to it and you've decided you don't want to do it anymore and stick to it.
If he says, you will if you love me, tell him, You won't keep asking me and making me feel bad, if you love me!
If he stays around, then he really likes you, if he leaves, then all he wanted was the sex and you didn't need him anyway.
Just because you've done something with a boy does not mean you can't stop when you want to. Think of yourself and stick with your gut feelings. It's like God talking to you and telling you things. If you're feeling this then it's probably true.
Give it a try...I bet he leaves, just like you think he will.
2006-08-07 03:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by 317bossyaussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A LOT OF GUYS TRY TO GET INTO A GIRLS PANTS . MOST GUYS WILL JUST ABOUT SAY ANYTHING JUST SO THEY CAN DO IT WITH YOU .SOME GUYS AREN'T LIKE THAT SO IF YOU THINK THAT HE DOESN'T TELL YOU THE TRUTH THEN THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM AND ANOTHER THING IS THAT YOU DON'T TRUST HIM WELL ENOUGH TO BELIEVE HIM ABOUT WHAT HE SAYS. I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP SIMILAR TO UR'S . HE TOLD ME HE WAS A VIRGIN JUST LIKE ME HE EVEN SAID HE CARED A LOT ABOUT ME BUT THEN THERE WERE THE CLUES THAT HE WOULD LIE TO ME AND THOSE WERE WHEN HE WOULD CONSTANTLY ASK ME WHEN WE WOULD DO IT. SO I ENDED BREAKING UP WITH HIM AND THEN I FIND OUT THAT EVERYTHING HE SAID WAS JUST ALL LIES SO IF YOU THINK HE DOESN'T TELL YOU THE TRUTH THEN THERE COULD BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM OR YOU JUST DON'T TRUST HIM WELL ENOUGH SO TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
2006-08-13 07:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by NINAB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are sneaky like that. If he just tells you what you want to hear, and doesn't do what he says afterwards then there is your answer. You need to make it harder for him to get into your underwear. If he can't do some simple things you request outta him then something is wrong.Play hard to get with him and see if he buys it. Then you'll know for sure. No all guys aren't like that, and you can usually tell, because for one they won't be thinking about your body but your brain and personality, and getting to know you better.
2006-08-07 02:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this questions seems to me like you aren't sure about your feelings and the feelings he has towards you.. If this is the way you are thinking he is probley just saying stuff to get in your pants. But , if you know for sure that he isn't than it's real, and he probley is ready. but are you ready to have sex? I think you should really just ask yourself that question.. Are you having mixed feelings about him that is why you are under yahoo asking this question. If it comes down to it. just be front with him. Ask him stright up whats going on. Talk about your problem with him and the way you are feeling.. It's for the best...
2006-08-13 14:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one definite way to tell if he is just using you for sex, is to cut him off for a month.I know it may be hard on both of you for that month, but you will be able to see how deep your relationship is, and how much you really mean to each other. If he is just using you for sex, he may break up with you, however, you are a smart girl, that doesn't need someone like that, and you can do better.
2006-08-07 02:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by jenniklog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋