ok i've been with my wife for almost 3 yrs and i know she loves me, but sometimes i feel like am competing with her first girl. Their relationship was based on sex ONLY! So, i want to surprise her with something new. How do i go about spicing up our sex life?
2006-08-07 02:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by ur_scooby_snack 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
she can't stand her ex, she slept with her brother so NO the heffer stays out
2006-08-07 02:28:28 · update #1
she's never said directly to me but am not stupid i see it in her eyes sometimes when we watch a movie with an italian girl she all of a sudden wants to have sex. thats what bothers me
2006-08-07 02:31:25 · update #2
Don't think as competing with the first girl, because when you do that you lose part of your identity and what makes you special. What you should do is think of new love-making methods taking into account what your wife wants, and try them even if you're not that fond of them, at least once in a while. Surprise her with something she's wanted to do for a long time but haven't.
Don't forget tho, to first set the mood (maybe do something special here too), and then continue it in the bedroom. Create an impression for yourself so next time she watches something similar on TV, she'll think of YOU!
2006-08-07 02:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To spice up your sex life do something new, I can't really help there because I don't know what it's been like up until now, you could check out the web or if you're braver go to the book store.
I just wanted to say that a sex only relationship is only fun for so long and I doubt she ever compares you to the first girl, it's probably just in your head.
2006-08-07 02:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have to compete ever with an x...but since u feel that you have too..why dont u wait for her naked in bed, when she comes home from work and put a path of rose petals that she has to follow to the bed room...when she gets there...tie her up, and tell her that she is at your mercy...and tease her and tease her, and then go all out...get freaky.
2006-08-07 02:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try role playing
2006-08-07 02:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Fiesty Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Costumes or sex in a new place.
2006-08-07 02:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her some sexual fantasies she had and try to help her out with them as best you can.
2006-08-07 07:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a strap and take charge.
2006-08-10 20:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by tala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried bringing her first girl into the scene with you too?
2006-08-07 02:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm... you could bring me home!! :-)
2006-08-07 02:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by hyperhealer3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋