I last saw a female friend 13 yrs ago. Now she's joined FriendsReunited. Should I contact her after all this time? And if so, what should I say to avoid sounding creepy?!
2006-08-07 01:35:35 · 11 answers · asked by John Conway 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course you should contact her; that's what Friends Reunited is all about!
Be casual and friendly about the whole thing - it's easy to get over-excited.
A quick, hello-do-you-remember-me should do nicely. Then let her take the reins. Then you won't be seen as creepy because she can take control of the contact you have.
2006-08-07 02:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Neil_R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if she's on Friends Reunited she wants to meet old friends. Just contact her.
2006-08-07 01:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes do it.
I have had contact and contacted people on there.
She wont find it creepy, she will be thrilled to hear from you i promise.
I get a real buzz when people contact me, its great to catch up, and after all she wouldnt of joined if she didnt want people to get in touch-would she.
Good luck!
2006-08-07 02:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I'm wondering if you are so and so that I knew years and ago and if you are how have you been. Then see what she writes and go with that.
2006-08-07 01:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah email her.. just say sumit like
Hello (then her name), havnt spoke to you in years and just wanted to know how ya doin and what you been up too? feel free to message me back. than your name..... im no good at these but u gt the idea hope it helps :)
2006-08-07 01:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you'd like to catch up. she probably does too if she's on friends reunited
2006-08-07 02:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT ask her what she's wearing man.... that gets the ol' alarm bells ringing....
Oh, and she must be 26 , yeah?? Ya fool
2006-08-07 02:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by andy2kbaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should contact her,but be relax when talk to her i thing that she will agree to contact you she either,good luck !
2006-08-07 01:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,just say something like "Hey long time no talk,whats up,what new with you" stuff like that
2006-08-07 01:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by solitary_heartache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have never been in this situation, but just act natural.
2006-08-07 01:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋