Ok, i have hit my 30's and always considered myself straigh. I have found women attractive but not in a sexual manner. A few months ago i started seeing a woman who also has never been with a woman before. I find the sex totally amazing, the best ever. I am still not attracted sexually to other females its men that i seem to be attracted to!! I have told my friends and family who are all very supportive. Im really confused as to my sexuality as i really want to be with my girlfriend. Any ideas on what i should do???
2006-08-07 01:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by beepbeep 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go with it. By the time you hit your 30's most people are set in there ways and life becomes very much the same from day to day. It is awesome that you are getting such a sexy pick me up. Women are a completly different and fun ballgame to play. So in short.... game on!!!!!!!!
2006-08-07 02:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Just Wondering 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BE WITH HER!!!!!! If your feelings are that strong for her and the sex is that wonderful,then why in the hell are you having 2nd thoughts???Make yourself happy is priority #1.You like men too,that makes it even BETTER! You have the best of both worlds.There is no way to go wrong. Trust me,I absolutely adore women,they are gorgeous creature,but I also like the penetration and closeness I get with a man.You only live once.Remember the phrase, "JUDGE NOT LEST YE BE JUDGED YOURSELF." That's the main reason people do not show their true feelings about homosexuality,they are scared of what others think.You don't have that to worry about,so why you stressin'?You are BI and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.You Go Girl.
2006-08-07 08:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality isn't black or white. It's various shades of gray. You could very well be attracted to this woman and to men at the same time. Enjoy the relationship, and congratulations on having such supportive friends and family!
2006-08-07 10:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that...you are living in a fantasy of who you are...it is ok, you can continue to live there if it makes you happy. REalize that there may come a day when fantasy will no longer work, you will slowly come out quietly, and find your true self. Whatever you do, take your time...there is no hurry to push anything on yourself. Good luck
2006-08-07 11:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Enjoy it. Make sure that your relationship with your girifriend continues to be respectful of yourself and her, and that your sex is based on that respect and a true loving care for one another, as well as the passion you feel.
Don't try to make assumptions as to how you will interact with other women or men when this relationship is gone, but embrace this one for what it is worth, and hope that it lasts.
2006-08-07 08:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your sexuality with love and due respect for your lover and with regard to your own self esteem.
2006-08-07 08:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be with her. Don't worry about labels. Everyone is different. You don't have to define yourself as 100% straight, lesbian, or bi. Just do what/who makes you happy and enjoy your life.
2006-08-07 12:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should enjoy your newly found interest and should go towards whichever way seems good to you.
2006-08-07 08:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Max P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live for the moment.if you feel happy in this relationship now then theres no reason you shouldnt go for it.
2006-08-07 08:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by honeylips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong being bi, enjoy the moment,
2006-08-07 08:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋