okay ive been straight all my life! Well about 6 mths ago me and my exbestfriend got drunk together and well we had a 3some with the guy i was dateing at the time. Well we ended up messing with each other more than we messed with him and i liked it. And my ex and me broke up. So then we started messing around all the time. Until we got in a fight now we hate each other but the point is i find my self looking at girls alot more than i ever did. But i still like guys more. I don't know if i'd call myself bi or what? It's hard for me to to tell anybody i'm affraid they will reject me. I'm seeing a guy right now and i care for him so much and i'm affraid to tell him but i'd rather mess around with a girl than him sometimes and ive messed around with a girl behind his back a few times. What am i? Is that counted as cheating? How do i tell my parents? and family? What is wrong with me?
2006-08-07 01:07:40 · 12 answers · asked by angelatfoxey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you like guys better right...? Well i dont think your bio...but its niormal to a girl to look at girls...not always sexually.
2006-08-07 01:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be bi,or maybe it just turned out like something new,but not permanent,it does kinda count as cheating,and ur parents should love u no matter what,ur family cant turn there back on u for something you choose,of course,this is if you decide to be bi the rest of ur life,or lesbian,they will have to know someday.look ill give u the s/n of a friend who is gay,im not sure if he told his parent,but still,he could help
greeneggsandham7777
my other friend,actualy mostly a friend of my xgf
animus_immeritus
2006-08-07 08:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by solitary_heartache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you didn't tell your boyfriend it is cheating. It would be considered bisexual. Now a days though, most men wouldnt have a problem with it. Tell your boyfriend now and be honest, or you are just adding more problems to the relationship by lying and going behind his back.
2006-08-07 08:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by lovingmom28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that is considered cheating, but if u would rather be with a girl then just tell him u want 2 see other ppl. well if u date guys & girls ur bi just cause u like girls more doesnt mean ur a lesbian if u tell ur friends & they reject u then there not really ur friends. im bi so i speak from experiance it's hard 2 tell ur parents but i have told mine & they totaly undertand. theres nothing wrong with u its not like its a crime to be bi. im bi & like girls more but still date guys. well good luck i had to wait till i was ready to tell my parents even then i had to wright it 2 them. but except me.
2006-08-07 08:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're messing around with girls behind your new bf's back, and you'd rather do it with a girl than him.
don't believe what these guys are telling you - it's just wishful thinking on their part. it is cheating. Don't believe me? Just reverse the sexes, and your bf would rather play with ***** than you. How would you take it?
2006-08-07 08:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a problem you got there... What I would do is tell you DAD not your mother. The problem is that you are a bi but more of a lesbian than a bi. That's not too good... =( Good luck
2006-08-07 08:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by nnnbbbxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Bisexual
2. Yes, it is considered cheating
3. You don't have to tell your parents and family.
4. Nothing.
2006-08-07 08:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like to me that ur bisexual but u obviously have a tendency of doing things behind ur lover's back.. that's what u need to fix first tell him, he'll forgive u if he really luvs u.
2006-08-07 08:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by BRITTNEY W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it is all guys dream to have 2 woman at once
2006-08-07 08:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it as cheating. If you are bi, that is fine, if not, that is just weird..
2006-08-07 08:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋