I would rather agree with a perpertrator rather than arguing and i always find myself agreeing wether i really want to or not.
After I have I feel like **** for days coz i know what i should of been saying.
womans rights aye, so where have mine all gone? I have lived with family violence now for 18 years and thats all i really know is that life.
2006-08-07 01:07:19 · 11 answers · asked by hazeleyes6984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is time for YOU to make a change. Get some back bone and do what you know is right for you.
You know there is a problem, you have admitted to yourself and others that there is a problem so now is the time to act on it.
Especially if there are children involved.
2006-08-14 16:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar you know that the violence is wrong and should not be aloud I do understand where you are coming from, The first thing is to realize that you don't have to be a victim anymore if you continue to allow these things to happen, then your not the victim anymore you become the abuser and what I mean by that is that you and only you are allowing these bad things to happen, you can't let this take over your life you have to start takeing control of whats going on with your situation you can be a suvivor or you can be a victim, that choice is totaly up to you. Do the best thing for youself.Stop being a victim and stand up for yourself don't let these things keep going on.
2006-08-07 01:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by star110772000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable that you would agree with a perpetrator after living with family violence for 18 years.
Do you want to live in a different enviornment? Are there some community resources that you can look into?
And, I want to mention that you are actually on your way because you do know there is a different way of living or you would not be questioning.
Good for you! Keep going!
2006-08-14 07:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you not worthy enough? You are a human being with feelings and rights. You should not have to endure family violence. Please stand up for yourself. There are places to call or go and get help. Maybe you agree because you are afraid you will get hurt, more violence. Maybe you feel safer agreeing and not standing up for yourself. This has got to stop before you get hurt. Please realize that you a good person that is put on this earth for a purpose and that is not to be degraded, hurt, or to be kept silent.
2006-08-14 18:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for a change. Get away from the violence and you just might find that you can speak up for yourself and when you disagree you can say so. You need some one to help you get some self esteem
2006-08-14 19:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by red angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like you are in a bad situation that you should get out of. You shouldn't have to agree to save your self from an argument. You have a right to say your piece like anyone else. God Bless you. I hope things change for you.
2006-08-14 17:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MY LOVE I AM SORRY BUT THAT IS NO EXCUSE,BECAUSE YOUR FAMILY WAS DISFUNCTIONAL DONT MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE.I WAS BEATEN AS A CHILD,I BEAT NO-ONE AND AT 6'5" at 210 lbs I CAN KICK THE SH-- OUT OF MOST,I CHOOSE NOT TO.VIOLANCE GET US NOWHERE.CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR YOU,AND YOULL MAKE A BIG CHANGE FOR US ALL.IF YOU WHAT LIKE TO TALK MORE ON A PRIVET LEVEL E-MAIL ME AT sge4me@yahoo.com MY NAME IS DAVE
2006-08-07 04:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that know excuse for so many violence you have to put a stop to this right know before thing get out of hand.i am tell you this because i lost my sister and i don't want what happen to her happen to you.
2006-08-14 07:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out life like is not life,, get help there are women shelters is most citys,, dont be afraid,, and it is ok to argue,, once your free you will find this out.......good luck,, and god bless
2006-08-13 20:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need a hug :)
2006-08-07 01:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by abunky81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋