seems a lot easier that way, plus this way she can think that it was her choice so she doesn't feel bad about getting dumped
2006-08-07 00:57:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Be a man and tell her. And be clear why you are going into a relationship next time. Statistic shows, people fall in and fall out. They don;t mean to hurt anybody. They just "fall" into and out. So next time don't just "fall" into it.
2006-08-07 01:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will just end up hurting her and even yourself. Do you like her as a friend, because if you do her trust with you will be totally broken and she will have to heal from that incredible pain of betrayal and hurt. Just talk to her and tell her that you care for her, but that you don't feel the same way you once did before. It might be hard, but it will save your integrity and her self-esteem and maybe even a future friendship between you both. Let her go, but in an easy and tactful way. Listen to Chris Brown's new song...there's never a right time to say good-bye, there's not a right way either, but there are definitely some wrong ways. I hope you make the best decision for yourself and her.
Be Blessed!
2006-08-07 01:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the easier way, but it's a coward's way also! You need to be honest with her and tell her it's over. Don't cheat on her! If you do that, that can backfire a whole different way then you may want it to. What if she talkes around with all the girls saying what creap you are and you don't have another chance with anoher girl down the road?
No, you need to be a man, and tell her it's over. She may spread it around that you are a jerk, but she may respect you also for being honest with her and telling her.
Take care and have a nice day!
2006-08-07 01:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on her will hurt her more, and don't use the line "we need to start seeing other people" because that will really tear her up. The best thing for you to do is sit her down, and tell her how you feel about the relationship. Chances are she could feel the same. Don't be mean to her, but just tell her like it is that you don't want to be with her anymore.
2006-08-07 01:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you need to be honest with her! ok tell her the truth cuz she won't hate you as much if she has the true story of why you broke up. but if she finds out later you were only trying to make her break up with you! then she will hate you even more! she will be even more hurt too. go get some emotions somewhere if you feel that way about her then i think it is a good thing you wanna break up with her cuz you are just helping her get rid of a mean, unemotional, honest, person! good for her!
2006-08-07 13:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that would be a good idea. If you cheated on her then she would tell her friends and so on. So if you want to be known as a cheater then fine. I would just break up with her. I would rather have my boyfriend break up with me than cheat on me. If you like someone else just tell her. Or whatever the reason is why you don't want to go out with her anymore.
2006-08-07 01:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! That is never a good idea. If you really don't want to be with her, just tell her. Cheating will hurt her more than you being honest and upfront with her, then it also makes you look bad too. Do what's right and be a man
2006-08-07 01:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by younggb77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women need "closure", or, they need to know WHY you wanted to break up with them, so that their "next boyfriend" will get the benefiet of them changing thier ways, in order to improve themselves.
Everyone wants to know what thier faults are...(well, those of us who want to improve themselves), so that we can be better people, or a more "people friendly" person...
By you dumping her, cheating on her or any other low down scoundrel thing, you dont give her the satisfaction of leaving on a positive note and you leave her with a lot of unanswered questions that will nag her for a very long time and she will eventually grow to hate you for it!
Explain why, and cut it clean. Its the best way, so that you both will benefiet...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-07 01:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's not the way to do it. You will only hurt her and give yourself a reputation. The only way is the honest way. Communicate you will feel better about it. There is nothing worse then being cheated on think about how you would feel if she did it to you.
2006-08-07 01:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by emsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhhh no!! well maybe. it depends on the girl. most girls are hurt and break up with you because they think that they cant trust you. if you dont want to hurt the girl just break up with her plain and simple. dont do anything special like take her out to dinner and break up with her at the end. just call her up and tell her that you're not so into her anymore and want to break things off. it would be a lot less painful for her!!
2006-08-07 01:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by laziedazie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋