How do I get my girlfriend to stop hugging me or kissing me in public?

Question

its like ok, we know that we're together, does the rest of the world have to know to? not cool

Answer 1

if you don't like it get a new girlfiend cause it sounds like you have a problem

Answer 2

I'm sorry but that Q? just shows your age. Mature people don't care what other people think, because they're too busy enjoying themselves to care. I'd say you'd do her a favour if you broke it off with her. She sounds like a wonderful, loving person, and you don't deserve the love that she gives you. One day you'll regret feeling this way. When you're older, and lonely, these days will continue to haunt you. Open up, and let love in. It's the extender of days. The reason for living. If you don't discover that, then your life will be so mundane. I pity the state that you're currently in.

Have you ever wondered if you're gay? Maybe that's what you're embarrassed about. Not the PDA's (public displays of affection), but that you've been seen with a woman? It's okay to be gay. Just don't lead her on. Face your demons, and dispell all pretense. There's no need to hide who you really are. If people don't like it, then you don't have to like them.

Answer 3

I have a friend that does that and it embarrasses me to watch her make an *** out of herself. I think it lack of self esteeem, immaturity, or insecurity,

Tell her to save it until you get home, Let her read this,
People do not want to see that, a little hug or a little pat on the knee at the table, but to look like you need to go get a room, I agree, NOT COOL>>>> grow up..Maybe my friend will see this!!

Answer 4

No way except leaving her.My boyfriend complains about it too n I still hug n kiss him.Finally he understood that I use mostly body language to show my feelings for him.If u love her u can get used to it.But in crowded places I don't kiss his lips I just hold his hand n kiss his cheeks.I always have a desire to do the more but I don't wanna angry him.

Answer 5

well too much PDA in my opinion is just not good. but at least hold her hand. just tell her you don't feel comfortable kissing and hugging in public. but at least hold her hand. cuz thats definatly not too much PDA. you know... i kinda understand where you are coming from but she may think you are like embarrassed to show that you are together in public that is just the way it might come off to her. even if thats not your reason. just try and talk to her. and be honest cuz honesty and communication is the most important things in a relationship. Good Luck!♥

Answer 6

Just tell her that you aren't comfortable with displaying affection in public. Explain that it has nothing to do with her, but that it's your personal preference. My husband and I had this conversation when we first began dating and we totally agreed about it. It always makes me uncomfortable to watch others hugging and kissing in public so why would I want to be one to make others uncomfortable?

Answer 7

Simply tell her that U have -- not taken bath today / just vomitted in the morning / orally kissed a dog / not brushed properly / eaten rotten eggs.

Answer 8

If you're uncomfortable with a little hug or smooch, you'd better get rid of the girl until you grow up and become a man.

Answer 9

Well tell her wht you feel and if she is mature enough she will respect yr feelings, but you know if shes so bubblly and loving let it be, you can ask her to slow down a bit but dont stop it altoghter.

Answer 10

uhh is she all over you in public or is it just friendly kisses and hugs? i dont see the problem. why shouldnt people know? i dont get it. w/e

Answer 11

yeah, the rest of the world DOES have to know.
what's the matter? afraid that having a girlfriend might put other women off? stop being such a guy and be a MAN.