Hi, I don't hvae any friends,yet.
can you tell me how to make a lot of friend???
(your experience)
2006-08-07 00:37:01 · 15 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Jin Ye! Welcome to the US. Sorry you haven't made any friends yet, but give it time.
Try to talk to lots of people! Every day, try to say Hi to at least someone. Or at least smile at the people you see every day. Mostly just be yourself. You seem like a very upbeat kind of person and most people like that.
Can you participate in any sort of sports? Try to get involved in something at school.
By the way, your English can't be that bad if we can understand you. Good luck!
2006-08-07 00:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was a kind of silent girl when I was at mid school. I dislike talking to strangers/boys. I was upset for a while I thought I dull and sad. But when I went to college, I meet some really good friends. We had a lots of fun and go to anywhere and we talk almost everythings. So I became talkative, not shy and look bright. I am now a happy people and I found that If you are sincerely, friendly, having positive thoughts, funny and be honest, then you would have a lots of friends....yeah its true I swear....
ps. wearing a warm smile on your face is showing friendly too
2006-08-07 07:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatierdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the kind of person you'd want as a friend. Be outgoing, talk to people warmly show interrest in their lives and dreams. Be presentable, dress every day as if you're going to meet your best friend, pay special attention to hygene and make yourself as handsome as possible. You never know what oddity of your appearance could be an obstacle for someone who could be a great friend. Have diverse interrests that people admire, Music, Literature, Computers, art. The more facets there are to your personality the more likely people will find something about you they can relate to. Be gracious, allways thank someone for their time or help when they do something nice for you. Most people will tell you that it was nothing for them to be considderate to you but everyone likes to be appreciated and will want to spend time with people who appreciate what they do.
Also once you have a friend, network. Your friend likely has friends that also share your common interrests, they'll be pretty easy to approach as you allready are friends with someone they trust.
2006-08-07 07:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who simply drift along, searching for somewhere they belong to in this world. Looking for a place to call their own, they want to know where they stand in life. Years go by, but the answers might still be unknown to them, even til their very last breath on their deathbeds. Maybe that's what this journey called life is all about.
But living life is never a waste. When we have somebody to love and something to hope for, we learn to embrace the true beauty of life. Cherish every moment of your life because once it's gone, it will never come back. Sometimes you miss it so badly that it hurts inside.
2006-08-07 07:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what they have to say, be yourself, and be pleasant to be around. If you want a lot of friends they might be superficial, I think its best for you to find a few really good friends, that you can make a strong bond with. Then when you chill we these friends, there likely to have other friends, which you can meet from them, and spand your list of friends even more. Just start slow, and work yourself up.
2006-08-07 07:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if they dnt want to be your friend then they're not the right friends for you.You meet people through people so start to go out alot and not alone. Go with your cousins and ask them to bring a few friends along. You'll get introduced and see from there
2006-08-07 07:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well material aspects really dont matter in this case, but with that damn tough look-alike name, i dont think its eazy.
anyway if u wanna be anonymous or only need japanese or chinese, try this......analyse whether it should be girl or boy. then proceed with one big open heart. during the earlier stages of this process, be very much humble and honest you can.if that works the rest is up to u to forward it in anyway u want
2006-08-07 13:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i would use an "s" after friend. maybe your not express your needs well.
second, i would stress the quality over the quantity.
third, for someone to be interested, one must be interesting. not to say your not, but sometimes we look far when we should look close.
2006-08-07 07:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by dogpoundcakemix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some relationships tips on this site on how to
2006-08-07 07:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can suggest u to be very delicate at ur speech , smart at ur actions and intelligent in ur answers and u will get as many frens as u want
2006-08-07 07:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋