My freind flunked for french because i did not help her to cheat and now she is avoiding me. what do u think i should do to make her happy.
2006-08-07 00:26:21 · 31 answers · asked by shrea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-07 00:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing !!!
She flunked because she did not STUDY !!!
You can tell her why you did not help. You can explain that cheating is wrong, and you care too much about her to allow her to do wrong.
If this does not work...she is not a true friend, and you should find a more deserving friend to replace her with, one that studies with you, supports you and does not cause you grief !!!
You go girl for doing the right thing!
2006-08-14 22:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by schnikey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your friend be, forceful but kind, and talk to her tell her your reasons for doing what you did, not that you did anything wrong you did the right thing, tell her your sorry but this was something that you just would not do and tell her if she was really your friend she would try to understand where your coming from. Also offer to help her study so that in the future she won't have to ask you to help her cheat good luck and i hope that you get this resolved.
2006-08-14 12:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kaitsurinu-chan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing...the bsic rule of friendship is that u shud have trust in ur friend...she knows that she was wrong asking u for doing a sin..write down her that u cannot compromise on ur moral and ethical values....if she has her own set of such values she wud understand..never take the ownus or guilt of something dat u know is wrong...at the end of the day u have her best intentions at heart which is what matters and she shud understand dat..if she doesnt dont run behind her,,might be she's a friend on face just to get such help out of u.....world is full of such ppl..saying this out of personal experience..yes but do talk and justify urself..if u r keeping urself in her shoes n taking her pain..she also shud do the same.. life is much more than an exam in french..if matter as trivial as this has shaken her faith in u then what can u expext later from her for bigger questions????????there is difference between situations and intentions sweetheart and any sensible person understands that...
2006-08-12 22:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by gary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you can make here "happy", but I believe you did the right thing by not helping her cheat...
May be you could suggest you guys study together for the next french test...
Good Luck
2006-08-14 18:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by pamela k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer to help her study for the next exam. Do not feel bad that you had too much integrity to cheat. If your friend cannot accept that then you are better off with her avoiding you.
2006-08-15 02:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing as if she is a real friend she will come around sooner or later cheating is wrong besides how will she learn if you do her work for her? True Friends will or should understand.
2006-08-15 04:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by svolsted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously that isn't a true friend. If she was your true friend she wouldn't be mad at you. She should respect the fact that you want to maintain honesty and that you wont to do the right things. Helping someone cheat is not the right thing.
2006-08-14 17:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Justin M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont mingle with such a person, but being her friend, try to convince that you love her as a friend and doesnt want her to suffer consequences at the end. Just speak to her the truth.
2006-08-15 04:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Romel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing.. as a friend, tell her that you care about her, that's why you're not helping her on cheating..
advice her not to cheat again.. and help her by study together for the next test..
2006-08-15 05:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by jgg 7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend she wouldn't hold it against you that you didn't help her cheat. You shouldn't have to make her happy, she should realize what she did was wrong. She should be making it up to you.
2006-08-15 05:27:03 · answer #11 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋