I did something really stupid last night... I was visitin at my cousins house last night n we got to smoking some weed, this **** really made me trip (mighta have had something to do with the fact that i was drinking red wine also with it...), right so anyway my fiance is in UK at the moment, i got dancing round a fire we were chilling by and my ex was there, we sorta ended up dancing with each other n then we kissed. should i tell my fiance that this happened?
2006-08-07 00:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Purple.Space.Cadette 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My fiance is a female btw. And i'm not justifying the kiss with weed and wine (nor an i blaming them for it), all i'm saying is that i have been around my ex alot and never ended up doing anything, but last night i was tripping bad on this weed, it was something i never experianced before and had the urge to move around n there was music playing and a fire so i was dancing by the fire and then ended up kissing my ex who later joined me dancing by the fire...
2006-08-07 00:40:55 · update #1
Yea it sounds like you made a silly mistake, leave it be and don't do it again.
However if you do post the details here so we can all enjoy what you got up to. and next time make it more saucy!!!
2006-08-07 00:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Blurb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that honesty will eventually cause trust to grow. Sure you could pretend it never happened, & you might even get away with it. Consider the fact that you know it happened... Then the chance that someone else saw the two of you? He will most likely be a little upset at first but, if he really cares about you he will forgive you! The fact that you told him when you didn't have to will give reason to trust. It will make your bond grow stronger in the long run!
2006-08-07 07:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by scanman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell him and he finds out from someone else, there will be no way to explain it then. Because not only then did you kiss your ex but you lied and hid it from him. If he finds out from someone else he'll just always wonder what else it is that you're hiding from him.
About 3 years ago, I kissed my ex and called my guy the minute I got home and woke him up. I told him the whole thing and apologized profusely and at the end of it all he just said "...Is that it? Can I go back to sleep now?"
I said ".. You're not mad?" & he said "It was just a kiss.. Just don't do it again"
lol
2006-08-07 07:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by rattlesnake71784 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only want to tell because you think that it will make you feel better.
Telling will hurt your fiance.
Why do you want to hurt your fiance? This is the only outcome. Without going into all the other nonsense (drinking, long distance, chilling with your ex, etc), if you desire to stay with fiance or not,
Suffer in silence.
2006-08-07 15:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell if its only to 'clear your conscious'! Besides it was just a Kiss, Right??? Just dont let it happen again, and tell your Ex shes a ***** for kissing you back, knowing your to be married!
2006-08-07 08:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by kellylewis652000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you need to tell him, You are planning on marrying him so you should keep nothing from him whatsoever.
2006-08-07 07:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by I snap kick xscenex kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him only if you want to give him a good reason not to trust you.
2006-08-07 07:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing , even to tell anyone, leavealone your fiance.
2006-08-07 07:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're blaming kissing your ex on weed and wine? Please!
2006-08-07 07:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him everything, with no excuses
2006-08-07 08:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋