How can I get over my ex? We have been together for 2.5 years... he says he loves me but he's not in love with me anymore... Why can't I accept this and move on. It has been 3 months ago that he broke up with me, but I still cry daily about him. Even meeting other men doesn't do the trick, I keep comparing them with him. Help...
2006-08-07 00:00:09 · 17 answers · asked by Fallen Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Giving up the dream is much harder than giving up the ex. Try to change your expectations.
2006-08-07 02:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by thethinker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone can be a very tough time and usually at some-point in their lives everybody experiences some form of break up. As the old saying goes "Times a great healer" and speaking from experience it is very true! You may feel very upset like this for some time but you'll get through it. This guy obviously meant a great deal to you and you probably became so attached that now its a whole new change but change isn't always a bad thing sometimes its what we all need to turn the situation into a better one. Maybe this time apart will bring you back together, sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say. At times like these its good to have a good supply of friends and family around to A) help take your mind off this sad time and B) to be there as a support system for you. Some people are great believers of fate and the whole What will be, will be route in life. Try to continue your life as best you can, and hopefully things will sort themselves out. Love is a very strong emotion and if you guys have that then I have a feeling things will work out.
2006-08-07 00:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by D K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know the answer to this, because Im going through the same exact thing been 3 months and we were togather for 2.5 yrs and I cry daily about it. My friends say I need to let go of all the good memories so I can move on but its hard. I hope everything goes well for you. Take care
2006-08-07 00:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by MYRNA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through this..don't u worry it's gonna take some time to get over some1 was everything in ur life,& it's normal that you're comparing the others with him coz he was the last one & you're stuck in the good memories that u had with him,,,now take some rest & relax...& think 'bout ur life what was the plans that you've made be4 & what have u done from those plans..organize it & then start go out & date again coz ur hero's still there some where u might not see him or imagine him now but he's there so give your self a chance to see him & don't stay home crying 4 the past days...it won't help at all! believe me it's gonna take time but you'll be fine & someday you're gonna laugh about ur self
2006-08-07 00:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by ღ♡♥SeNioriTa♡♥ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's not much help to it, only time can help you get over him. Just don't sit home, find urself some hobbies, go out wth your friends, first to places where you won't meet him and when you feel ready, to places where you can meet him and get used to the fact that he's not yours anymore. The fact he says he still loves you doesn't make it easier, cause you're probably asking yourself why he's not with you anymore. But don't try to find reasons, you won't, if he couldn't tell you. Be brave, you can do it!!!
2006-08-07 00:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by E-Fox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have i been there!! same situation, together for almost 3 years and then one day it was over. he said he still loved me and i knew i still loved him. i thought i would NEVER get over him, actually, i thought i would die without him. honey, the best thing i can tell you is that time heals all wounds. i cried for months after wards. when someone youre that close to and love that much is all the sudden out of your life one day you automatically start this grieving process. i was sad then angry, then eventually, as time wore on, i realized i thought about him less and less.
in the mean time, i would suggest spending a lot of time with friends. do things that kinda take your mind off of him, take up a new hobbie, focus on studies, etc... 2 years after he and i broke up he contacted me again (after absolutely no contact at all) and he told me he still loved me and wanted me back. i was totally disinterested, moved on. give it time.
2006-08-07 00:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by lndsuedelvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend ,, the type of question u asked and the matters u mentioned results that ur ex is no more interested in u now ,, its better for u to forget him ,, or ,, and the other thing is that dont cry in front of him and dont look at him in this way u can get him ,, it may be possible that he was doing all that just for teasing u ,, in this way u can get over him ,, frannkly ,,,
Faizan F41
2006-08-07 00:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by faizi A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Princess,
You will get over this in time. Everything will be alright. Until then there will be some pain. However, I am sure that you will be much stronger in the end.
2006-08-07 00:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls dont be a fool by crying for someone who dont want u. u r thnkng too much abt him. concentrate on some other things, like studies or hobbies.
2006-08-07 00:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by amsu06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2.5 is a long time just give it more time
2006-08-07 00:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋