I have just found out my b/f has the hots for another guy ......
2006-08-05 23:44:45 · 21 answers · asked by Fiji_bound2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
may be
2006-08-05 23:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe gay, maybe bi. Either way, unless you want a threesome, get out. Bisexuals can commit to a monogamous relationship (I know because I am one) but it sounds like he's still in an exploratory stage and it'll be just about impossible for him to concentrate on you the way you deserve.
2006-08-06 06:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he could be bi, or at least bi curious. Sounds like you both need to sit down and have a serious discussion. I don't know how long you have been dating, and I don't know what your views are on bisexuality....and that is why I suggest you two sit down and talk about it. Communication is the key. How are you supposed to know what he is thinking/feeling and vice versa, if you don't talk?
2006-08-08 17:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, confront him in a calm way and break up, so he can feel free to go with the other guy and you can move on and have a bf who treats you with respect and truly loves you.
2006-08-06 07:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh if it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it must be a duck.
GF i think you know the answer to your question.....I just hope and pray if you've had SEX with this BI-SEXUAL dude.....you've used protection..... (transmitting of HIV/AIDs virus's most common amonsts BI-SEXUAL MEN)
He's probably Bi-SExual and not gay. He what I would classify as a MOUNDS kind of guy. Sometimes you feel like a nut sometimes you don't!
2006-08-06 07:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really does have the hots for another guy you should run away and run away quickly.
2006-08-06 07:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men love other men they just wont admit it. Thats why they love sport, all the hot sweaty guys really do it for em
2006-08-06 06:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he's gay! Don't fall for the I'm Bi routine. You suck a you know what or want to suck a you know what...you're gay!
2006-08-06 07:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, men all love each other more than women, but that wasn't your question. I think, ask him. If you know him well enough to read him, you will know if he's telling the truth.
2006-08-06 07:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty gay to me.
real men would NEVER, NEVER, EVER say they thought that another guy was hot.
2006-08-06 07:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by DapperDan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and im the 1
2006-08-06 07:03:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋