well ok i have a crush on this guy at school and then i found out my friend went out with him a while ago but supposibly didnt like him anymore and then this broke my heart because i really like this boy well let me get to the point i went on her web page and i see her saying i love him but then i went to his web page and if they were going out he wuld have it to right? i was like WOWW what a friend i have i mean she knows i like him but the problems is i dont even know him that well we never even talked and if your reading this please don put your stupid or something you dont know the guy because i dono love at sight i guess i really like him though and if you answer this thank you and i will take every word of advice you guys give THANK You!
2006-08-05 23:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Found love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well crushes come and they go. Pretty soon you won't even know that he exists. It'll be gone with the wind. In the mean time why don't you talk to your friend about it, hm?
2006-08-05 23:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then maybe you should try and make the first move and "accidentally" bump into him at school or somewhere. Having a crush on someone is one of the worst feelings in the world but if you don't at least try to get to know him better then your feelings will probably grow and grow.
Once you get to know him a bit better you will then realise that he is just the same as us all, with the same imperfections and you may come to realise that he isn't for you after all. On the other hand, you may get on really well together and it could be the start of a beautiful friendship.
The worst thing you could do (in my opinion) is to do nothing and sit and brood over how much you think of this boy. You are obviously a very young girl and throughout your life you will have crushes on different guys from time to time and if they don't make a move on you then what have you got to lose by making the first move? At least then you will know one way or another whether or not you and this boy are meant to be.
Hope this helped a little and good luck to you. x
2006-08-06 00:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by essexrebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out all you can about this guy that you like very much, see if he is all that, if not, then no harm done. But if you find out that he is an O.K. kind of a guy, then make your move. Send him a note from his secret admirer for openers. Say Hello when you see him in the hall ways. There are many ways a young girl can get the attention of her Romero, be creative but protect yourself from disappointment. Some guys love the Chase more then the Catch!!! Good luck and thanks for asking the question. Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-13 22:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes come and go let this one go. Your friend obviously isnt your friend or she wouldnt be humiliating you. Not a good choice to date someone your friends been with. Like him as a friend. if he comes to you ok but be careful that your friend isnt playing tricks on you. Enjoy being young and free no guy is wirht getting hurt over, Just around the corner will be the boy that makes your hesa skip a beat, you will feel warm inside nothing will break your spirits. hope you find this soon
2006-08-06 00:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess the main problem now is that you need to ascertain whether or not your friend is still going out with him? If you really love him so much, then first try to get to know him. It can be, like, a simple email or something. If your friend's no longer going out with him, then the way is clear. You go girl!
2006-08-05 23:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gone with the Wind !!! Never date, a guy your friend has already been with, had a crush on, or dated period! It's the Golden rule!!
2006-08-11 22:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by megha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you type just like a valley girl talks! that's so cute! Girl, slow down, less caffeine or love highs and really just start doing poetry and improving yourself. Listen to him and observe quietly and you will see what he appreciates.
2006-08-13 22:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by quiet one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't proclaim things like that, it's somehow deemed uncool. only girls and wussies proclaim how much they love someone on their webpage. webpages to me are kinda lame. If I need to know how much someone likes me, I guess the best approach is to go up to them and simply ASK. And if they can't answer, then THEY are lame.
2006-08-13 10:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date, a guy your friend has already been with, had a crush on, or dated period! It's the Golden rule!!
2006-08-05 23:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi in Nevada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go when friends are involved some how with a guy it turns out bad let it go friendship way more important
2006-08-13 11:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋