My Brother in law has a 5years old kid with one woman that i've grown really close to over the years. He works

Question

in another country and he resently got another woman pregnant and he stays with her there. Since we usually visit them i've also got to know the other woman and she really is a sweet person. I know its none of my business and i don't want to be involved in their battles, but now we stuck in the middle as they both want me to choose whom i speak too and befriend as they are both still in the relationship with my brother in law. Just now his home visiting and he;s with the mother of the first baby, the other one keeps calling me and wants to find out whats going on here.

I've spoken to my husband and he really does not want to be involved. What do i do now?

Answer 1

I would stay out of it. And tell each of these women that you will NOT be put in the middle of it.

If they want to know what is going on and where he is.......they need to ask him and not you.

Answer 2

the elements is better than likely worse now than it changed into. I surely have lived in Fife, Scotland, all my existence and Scotland isn't hardship-free for the finest of climate yet i'm able to bear in mind even as i turned right into a toddler, in the course of the faculty vacation trips contained in the summer season there have been days it changed into so warm the tar changed into melting on the roads. For the total 6 weeks vacation trips we were certain reliable climate, were on the coastline or only operating about the streets wearing shorts and T shirts daily. from time to time even taking area in out in my bathing gown. those days, we get an unusual day of sunlight the following or there yet no longer even an complete week.

Answer 3

Yeah it's best to stay out of it. I'm in a similar situatiion and basically i tell them to take it up with my brother in law

Answer 4

listen to your husband. stay out of it.

Answer 5

That`s the way should be!!!